Hi all. I'm a bit confused like everyday I think about it but I don't know who to ask or talk to.
So I've been "hanging out" with one of my coworkers for over a month. He's way younger than me. We go out, we drink, we party, we go to dinner, movies, park, we hold hands, and sleepover - that kind of thing.
When I tell my friends that I hang out with this guy they tell me it's not just "hanging out" it's "dating". I thought about it and it makes sense. The thing is this guy never said anything about dating and I don't wanna be seemed as clingy person who wants to know about the status and labeling thing. I don't know maybe because he's younger than me? Or maybe I'm older so I have this emotion going on and think too much?
I'm so confused I don't know what to do, like should I ask him? But I don't want to freak him out.
say, am I so clever or just that simple.
You wanna know the difference between hanging out and dating? Just ask your hearth! Even simple hallo might mean either "fok off" or "I really love you. Please stay". The funny part is there is no way how to describe signs of interests...every situation is different, every person is different. Some people are just flirty and act as they are in love, but in real they are just playing. Some are reserved, even aloof yet they deeply desire you.
Ask ask yourself how do you feel when you say hallo. Was it date or just friendly play?