@Steve11,
This is such an individual thing emotionally. Forgiveness and tolerance for others mistakes and also how much you can handle are real growth areas for most of us.
If it were me, I'd find someone else. One thing I'd be cautious of ... she seems to be swayed by her family..and may have trouble being independent and perhaps is not emotionally stable now. Or is that more than just a temporary condition?
Another thing is her dependence on others. Does she have her own home? Can she support herself? Does she work? Does she have children, etc? Or is she looking to be taken care of?
It's very difficult determining when someone
else is ready and available emotionally after their divorce. She wasn't done with her divorce both legally and emotionally. Who knows whether or not she is ready now? Does she know? Can you trust her? I wouldn't be able to.
Remember this, she cut you off..and it was quite abrupt. That has to hurt and you didn't deserve to treated so shabbily. That is not a good sign..no matter why it happened.
Good luck with this. I don't envy your position.
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