Extramarital affairs are like cocaine...

And they are an expensive habit to maintain !!

Welcome to a2k Kathi

LMAO Gautam!

Thanks for the welcome

Been there, Kathy. You have to keep one thing in mind. The only kind of person who would have an affair with someone else's spouse is someone who is looking for a person who will never be able to make any demands on them. This type of person is someone who wants no responsibility in a relationship and wants no expectation put on them from you that it will ever be able to go any further than what it is at this moment. These are "cake" people, you know, they want to have their cake and eat it too. Hardly worth destroying your reputation and/or credibility over. If you're unhappy in your marriage, end it and then find someone who's worthy of you, not someone who is a "cheater," and not worth wasting time on. If this person has no problem cheating with you, what makes you think they're not doing it with someone else as well (or at least willing to do so?) Remember, always end one relationship before starting another. Life's too short for drama and chaos. An affair is not a 'real' relationship and it never can be. It's just a good way to allow yourself to be used and taken advantage of.

Best of luck to you.

Kathi, take heed of what SueZCue says.She is right on the money.
A woman whether married or single, wants more out of a relationship than she can ever get from a cheating/married man.

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Kathi, take heed of what SueZCue says.She is right on the money.
A woman whether married or single, wants more out of a relationship than she can ever get from a cheating/married man.

I like to cheat and snort . . . who's with me???

And what of the family you abandon for your "habit"? Extra marital affairs hurt everyone. People who cheat are selfish and ignorant.

Sweet, another coked out sex fiend! This world needs more of them.

Cement mixer, putty putty...
Has loneliness really got you in its grip Kathi?
So sorry to read your moral abyss. Or amiss.
Or maybe that's what rows your boat. Have a parachute handy. Draw from your common sense. God Bless and have a joyous day in forumland.

ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLRIGHTY-THEN!

I think the same can be said about a man.
He also wants and deserves more from a relationship than he can get from a cheating women.

Cheaters deserve cheaters.

Once someone cheats, the only way to completely clear it up is to tell their spouse that it happened, and its over, then wait and see how it goes from there. Any less and they will be living a lie the rest of their lives.

I don't understand how anyone could have an affair and not be consumed with guilt.

I sometimes cheat at Monopoly with people who don't know how to play, by invoking the "robbing the bank" and "this is a stick up" rules, of course, only applicable to the banker, me. Does that count? Should I confess to my wife that I'm conning grade school children into giving me fake money?

Extra marital affairs are like cocaine..........

The worst I ever had was wonderful......

If not consumed with guilt, I would certainly be consumed with fear of what I most likely picked up in the way of an STD.
If they are willing to cheat with you, then they are willing to cheat with others also.

I think I will just stick to my wife. That way I know that Im not ending up with strange bumps on my parts, or rashes, or burning, etc...

Man, you said it BCP1...I can't even imagine flingin' myself around town for SEX?? Sex is fabulous when you are in love. Go find someone you looooove that much. It may take years...but gosh, be sparing with the put out. I'm not wanting to sound judgemental...I'm actually worried for you. <sigh>Someone else to worry about. Yes, best of luck to you Kathi.

Kathi is now doing 25 to life for the state.

She snorted too many men, and then chopped up the leftovers into neat little lines.

They said she was insatiable.
Sad.

Kathi,
Any man that cheats on his wife with you is not worthwhile. They will say anything to get what they want from you to satisfy their narcissistic needs with no regards for how it will affect you.
Brush yourself off and forget about him.