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Tue 19 May, 2015 12:54 pm
I recently became involved with an older gentleman, he being 68 and me 58. I met him over a year ago but just recently went to visit him. Prior to me going he told me there was only one woman, a 25 year old that could ever keep him erect while in bed. I slept with him and it is obvious I could not compete with the 25 yr old he had for a few years. I felt that by him saying this it put a lot of pressure on me and had caused a great amount of anxiety in me. I truly believe that by informing me of this it was an error on his part because it leaves a woman feeling that she has to compete with a twenty five year old hard body.. Why would a man tell this to his new lover? I am having a difficult time dealing with this.. Also told me he loved me, he said it first and while we were in bed I told him I loved him and then asked, do you love me and his response was, " I think people use the term loosely" I found it very hurtful and confusing.I would appreciate any and all answers to my question. thanks in advance.
@Roxyroller,
Well, he sure doesn't have much finesse. I am not sure why he is acting this way towards you, but it is definitely a turn off. I'd be very cautious to get further involved with this clutz.
@CalamityJane,
I broke it off today.. Too hurtful to continue dealing with this.. Thanks for your response.
@Roxyroller,
Good, he sounds like a jerk.
@glitterbag,
Yes, a very hurtful one..thanks for your reply
@Roxyroller,
The man is an idiot, and certainly no gentleman.
I'm glad to read that you've given him the elbow.
The only time I have anxiety connected with sex is when I go more than a few days without it. Then I get pretty anxious.
@blueveinedthrobber,
More than a couple of days and I take up knitting.
Currently I have more than three hundred pairs of socks.
@Roxyroller,
He
is rather confusing. It seems like he doesn't know what he wants.
BTW, if some guy told me that a woman over 30 years younger than me was the only one who could get him hot, I would tell him to choose to either go back to her or get a prescription for Viagra. I would then depart. But maybe that's just me.
There is no way a 25 year old could compete with 58 year old woman.
Unless you've lived alone in a cave, you have infinitely more experience than her.
You have more wisdom and power. What a 25 year old can offer a 68 man year old is superficial and passing.
More than likely, he couldn't handle a mature goddess like us anyway.
We are the wise elders.
@Roxyroller,
I am glad to hear that, Roxy. You can do much better than him!
Good luck!
@CalamityJane,
I suspect Prince Charming has some performance issues of his own. If he plants the idea in the 58 year old that he can perform only if she is sensual enough to arouse him, he doesn't have to explain any shortcomings he may be dealing or not dealing with. It's perfect, I would love to boink you but first you have to be sexy enough. Then he is blameless if his partner is left frustrated, she thinks it's her fault and it couldn't possibly be him. Ha, I say again Ha!
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