Quote:Oh Mr. spendius Grumpy again.
devriesj said it nicely, home is wherever you want it to be
and happy.
What's wrong with Michigan?
One can try to convince oneself by easy assertions like that but home is where your roots are.Only if the place of roots is intolerable is it worth trying to feel at home somewhere else and even then it can't really work.The whole colour and tone of conversation between people with common roots is vastly different from that between people who are essentially strangers to each other.Large tracts of sensibility are absent from the latter and that leaves those people more or less dependent on media inputs,work considerations and daily doings for any sort of common ground and the resultant interaction is superficial and competitive and with a strong tendency to be temporary.I am not using any of these terms in a pejorative manner.A modern industrial society demands rootlessness and has to deal with the consequences as best it can.
Many books,articles,songs,movies and TV programmes deal with these matters.Titanic is just such a movie as Reisman's The Lonely Crowd is just such a book.But the "book" that seems to me to really expose the subject to the light is this site we are on here.The internet is,I feel,an ideal medium for the rootless.The searching for a common ground by threaders is quite palpable and was easily seen last night.But just watch them come and go.Rooted people haven't that choice and therefore learn tolerance or are ostracised.Why would a rootless person practice tolerance when s/he is happy to scoot at any time.Look at the fuss over the disappearance of thollady and then imagine the fuss a bolter causes within their family and friends.It is almost like a death but mitigated with phone calls,greetings cards,letters and fleeting visits.
This is a very deep subject and I did not raise it and I make no claim for the superiority of either stance.Things are what they are.But rootlessness is not for me because I'm a lazy,idle good for nothing to whom the idea of packing a suitcase is abhorrent and who thinks of airports in a similar way to the dark side of the moon.
What threaders should remember is that there are millions like me and we get almost no coverage in media for obvious financial reasons.Media is an entirely urban landscape and it sells rootlessness,superficiality and transience in order to increase demand for palliatives and nobody hopes that they work more than I do.
Doesn't it all depend on what is meant by "happy"?