help me understand his behaviour..please

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i met this very cute guy who works in the restaurant and we immediately felt a very strong attraction to eachother.i kept coming to the restaurant just to see him and we flirted alot,like smiling and he cheer me up when im a bit sad and we looks at eachother like all the time. but he never asked for my number or name so i decided not to come for a couple of weeks.i neeeded to figure out if i really was that into him or not.i came back and i felt the strong connection to him again
and he touched me for the first time and it was magical.but i still have doubts if he really wants to date me or not.i finally got to know his name.he acts kinda weird around me and he seems nervous and makes weird smalltalks,
so help me decide if i should pursue a realtionship with guy or move on?

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[+4] - Olivier5 - 04/22/2015I agree with Contrex: ask him out. However, be aware that waiters/waitreses are constantly exposed to such offers and they need to put a gracious smile on it to keep their jobs, but for obvious...

Ask him straight out if he wants a date and if he says no start going to a different restaurant.

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@Avaa,

I agree with Contrex: ask him out. However, be aware that waiters/waitreses are constantly exposed to such offers and they need to put a gracious smile on it to keep their jobs, but for obvious reasons they may not be that exited with the idea of dating clients. So don't feel too bad if he says 'no'. Could be just a matter of principle: "don't mix business and pleasure".

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@Avaa,

Avaa wrote:

i met this very cute guy who works in the restaurant and we immediately felt a very strong attraction to each other.

did he tell you he was very strongly attracted to you?

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ask him if he has time to go out for a coffee some time.

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@contrex,

contrex wrote:

Ask him straight out if he wants a date and if he says no start going to a different restaurant.

If it was meant to happen, it will happen.

“What we think, or what we know, or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is WHAT WE DO.” John Ruskin (1819 - 1900)

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Avaa - there are sparks, so go for it.

How are you ever going to know if you don't take the time to DEVELOP the relationship?

Clearly, he is interested. In fact, the poor guy is a nervous mess. I know girls don't like guys who lack confidence, but give him a break. He may be a late bloomer or just inexperienced.

Make the first move and ask him to go out somewhere. If he fails to respond or can't work up the courage, then move on. He's not ready for a big-boy relationship. But at least try.

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@Avaa,

hi and thanks for the responds of my questions. i`ll try to aske him out some other day when he works.i hope it he will say yes.lol

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@Avaa,

Has he told you he is interested in seeing you outside of work?

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