Apparently it happens a lot:
The Hull/Ryan crucible . . .
June 25, 2004
BY MICHAEL SNEED SUN-TIMES COLUMNIST
Former Dem senatorial hopeful Blair Hull was gutted by publicity surrounding his divorce.
Now GOP senatorial nominee Jack Ryan is being disemboweled by allegations made by his ex-wife, actress Jeri Ryan, while the couple battled for custody of their son, Alex.
Hull is not only livid, Hull is coming to Ryan's defense.
"For those of us who know Jack Ryan, the idea that any political party is sitting in judgment of Jack's moral character is ludicrous," said Hull.
"For those of us that know him well -- maybe the word saint is too strong -- but he is one of the most honorable, decent men I know. He is an honest man of the highest integrity, and I consider him to be a man of superior character.
"I may take a hit from my own party for saying this, but so be it. I have not healed from the allegations aimed at me. It takes more than three months to heal." (Hull lost the Dem primary, where he led the polls, after allegations made during his divorce from ex-wife Brenda Sexton hit the press.)
"I was doing pretty well until this week. This isn't fun for me to go through this again.
"Jack should be judged by the totality of his life. Not by isolated allegations made during custody proceedings."
Hull feels so strongly about the agony Ryan must be going through, he even wrote an essay ... which, in part, reads:
"Now that the newspapers and airwaves are filled again with salacious details of allegations made in the course of a divorce against a United States Senate candidate, I'm sure people are asking, 'Why did Jack Ryan run? Why did he run knowing this would come out?'
"Let's reframe that question. Why shouldn't a well-educated, successful businessman who has been active in the community, has an exemplary record of public service, and uses his own money to run for the U.S. Senate despite a messy divorce in his past -- a divorce where his former wife made allegations he denies -- why shouldn't he be judged on the quality of his ideas and the positions he would advocate in the Senate, rather than on divorce negotiations?
"As I said last spring, and as Jack Ryan's divorce records so vividly prove, messy divorces are about two issues: either custody of children or money. In my case, it was money. In Jack's case, it was custody. In neither case were the allegations made by the former spouse attractive, but in both cases it was generally recognized that in the heat of divorce negotiations, both sides often say and do things they later regret. That did not prevent the salacious details of the allegations dominating the news coverage of the Democratic primary, or as we see this week, the general election, to the detriment of the voters.
"Because as painful as this is for Jack and his family, the real losers are once again the people of Illinois who are being denied any kind of meaningful debate and coverage of this very important U.S. Senate race.
"The Chicago press corps SHOULD be hounding Jack Ryan with questions this week -- but the questions should be about the issues.
"The allegations surrounding Jack Ryan's custody battle were an issue for him and his family. They are not the issues that make a difference to Illinois families. And Illinois deserves better in this Senate campaign than, once more, a press obsession with personal lives when so many public policy issues demand a thorough debate."
Hull and I chatted about Jack on Thursday and what he must be going through. You see, Jack Ryan is also a very close friend of mine ... which is why -- in response to those of you wondering why I have said little about Ryan -- I have stayed out of reporting on his bid for the Senate. Once Jack formally jumped into the race, I jumped out.
"My concern now is for my family. Not for me," said Hull. "It still remains my concern. It's sad to think that every idea we may have to change the world can be erased by one allegation. You know, everybody does dumb things. But it's amazing how things can be spun.
"I'll tell you one thing. I'll never read the newspapers the same way again. In my case, the truth was more likely at [the] end of [an] article ... not the beginning."
Michael Sneed is seen at 5 p.m. Tuesdays and Fridays on WMAQ-Channel 5.
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