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Interesting comment and one, I've never seen before. As a person, who grew up in a major urban "ghetto", I'd like to know what "the ghetto horror of being dissed" is all about.
My comment was not intended to be offensive. Perhaps instead of "ghetto" I should have cited "gang member mentality".
We agree, I think, that "dissed" for disrespected in not "Standard English" but has moved from street slang into common comprehension if not common usage.
I read two daily newspapers: One is a very small town, small potatoes paper dealing with the problems of the Poconos, an inbred rural area which is rapidly becoming both diverse and suburban. The other newspaper covers the news of the Lehigh Valley, the third largest urban area in the state of Pennsylvania.
Both papers report kids and young adults--usually, but not always male--justifying assult, property damage, group inflicted chastisement and murder as just retribution for the victim having "dissed" and individual or group.
Ten years ago these kids were all inner city. Now they are inner city and middle class. The Crips, the Bloods and the Soccer Moms and Dads.
In this case the irate mother at the dance recital felt dissed because the door monitor was enforcing the recital rules. She also felt justified in using physical violence against the monitor.