@Jamjam1982,
Jamjam1982 wrote:
I am a genuinely nice person and I would do anything for anyone even strangers and probably even his ex if she asked me nicely lol
Being a genuinely nice person does not mean doing anything for anyone.
What gave you the idea that's what it meant?
Thank you everyone for your advice , I decided to take car back and told him to get lost , his reply was that I didn't even give him a chance but I asked him to choose her or me and he wouldn't , told him I understood that they had a child and there would obviously b contact between them but I'm refusing to pay for her to b driven around in her own private taxi and instead of saying he would stop unless it was to do with the child he just said he didn't want to upset her but doesn't mind upsetting me , glad I came on her as just writing the problem down made me realise how much of an idiot I was and how I just let them both take advantage and all your opinions really helped me to so thank you again everyone xxx👍😊