@ossobuco,
And I called you Mr. Kettle because you're criticizing one person for labeling others when you yourself have been shown to throw out a label or two in each comment you have posted so far.
In yet another act of ignorance, you assumed my use of the term referred to the textbook definition of it, in the very same sentence where you gave your own definition for the term "princess" that was contrary to the textbook definition of it.
Just as calling someone "princess" does not necessarily mean you're calling them the daughter of a monarch, calling someone "ghetto" does not necessarily mean they make minimum wage.
It's not about their race, gender, or income; it's about their behavior.
Similarly, saying someone is being a dick or is being anal doesn't necessarily mean you deride one person's actions as a mirror of the anatomical definition of the term, for those body part are essential in the human body.
They are simply terms society came up with to refer to people with your particular behavior, plain and simple.
So to quote Mr. glitterbag, "don't get your panties in a bunch."