@hingehead,
Actually, they are surpressed, in that you just get a small print notice that
user ignored, followed by a big white space.
Problems happen when engagement happens, and then you get to hear all about it, again and again.
I'm mixed, in that I don't really want discourse shut off here, but I've a built in from childhood lack of interest in incessant arguing. Not that my parents argued, better they should have; I lived in a quiet house sometimes in clouds of sullen silence (remember, anger is a sin). They were just so different. I suppose I have aspects of both over time, miss them, long time gone now. Would that we could talk some more.
I have a bunch on a2k I figure as irremedially racist, etc., off base, that I would never respond to (and they me, likely) but others here do. I'm glad they do, they need to be answered.
The trick is answer the once, but not feed. That takes a community capable of restraint. I don't get a restraint ribbon myself.