@Whattheactualbleep,
He was (the other man) being a jerk.
And that's a nice word for it.
He was trying to see if he could mess up your life.
Tell your husband and that you want nothing to do with the other guy, and if he comes back again, you're calling the cops to get the other guy off your front porch.
Then if it happens again, do it. And your other fellow will have a lovely time explaining himself.