Confused and would like help

I've been seeing this guy I met on Tinder for a month and half. We are f buddies and we are both 25. I'm married which I told him from the start. I've developed strong feelings for him. I'm such a blunt person that I let him know I would like to be in a relationship with him and I've told him my spouse and I are now getting a divorce. The first time I told him I want to be with him he said maybe but I have to take care of things from my end. Then the second time I asked him he told me he's not that into me like that and he's not really attracted to me and that he hates being in relationships. Him not being attracted to me blew my mind because by this point we had sex four times and I was told I was sexy by other guys I had recently slept with and that my body looks fit and athletic. Also, in mind I thought we were pretty much equally hot and attractive.

He's very independent and doesn't like to make plans. He's also a very sarcastic person and I am kind of gullible and sometimes don't get his sarcasm.

After letting me know he's not that attracted to me, I thought about how we never kissed during sex and how he really wouldn't look at me during sex. I asked him probably a day later would we ever have sex again. He said "mmmm no"' and I told him then there's no point in keeping touch. Well I contacted him again a few days later and told him I'd like to keep in touch ---it was because he always made sex incredible but it did lack passion. He texted me back immediately through text saying I thought you said there's no point, I told him forget what I said. He then asks me do I want to have sex tomorrow night. I said yes and was a bit surprised cause he has never asked me for sex initially except the initial texting through tinder app.

I would say I've gotten better at doing my makeup and that night I thought I looked very sexy compared to looking like im a young 19 girl (which I hear a lot). And so when we were having sex I noticed he kept staring at me intently and actually French kissed me while he was on top of me and then when I moved my face away (I was nervous because I did not expect him to do that) he moved my face back to continue kissing me very slowly and softly. And the sex felt very passionate like love making and we would hold hands while I was on top.

Okay more to the story, I think he has feelings for me too because I'm not sure why he still continues to meet up with me. So, here's what else happened. My spouse found out I was cheating called and threatened him that he would get him fired from military. I told him I may be possibly pregnant by him which I found out I wasn't. Then, I had a moment of craziness where I told him I would stop by his apartment asap because I just had to see him, this happened twice, he wasn't home. So... It makes me wonder what guy would still keep in touch with a woman like this if he didn't have some sort of feelings for her?

The day after us having sex he deployed oversees for 4 months and told me twice the night we had sex that he will see me in 4 months without me inquiring. And ever since the time he asked me to come over to his place he immediately texts me back compared to before where he would wait hours to text me back.

What do you guys think? Does he still see me as just a f buddy or possibly more?