Sun 22 Mar, 2015 08:27 pm
I've been dating this guy that I really really like for just over a month now. His best friend just started dating this girl that is known for being a frequent cheater or to date guys who are already in another relationship. I don't actually know her personally I just know about her as she was with somebody's boyfriend that I know. My boyfriend hangs out all the time with his best friend and she is always around. I've had an instant dislike of her as I know what she's capable of. I've tried talking to my boyfriend about it. He reassures me that I have nothing to worry about that even if she were to try something that he wouldn't do anything. I still can't shake the feeling though. It's already very deep seated within me, I don't like her around and I especially don't like the fact that my boyfriend see's her more often then me. I can't hang out with him very often, certainly not as often as I would like as I am a single mother and I have other responsibilities. I don't know what to do.
Perhaps you could start socializing with a new group of people - without your current boyfriend and this woman who is part of your/his current circle.
Or you could learn to trust your current boyfriend.
You also might want to think about disliking someone you don't know personally. Sounds like you're a bit too connected to the gossip mill.
You could make sure sex is better with you. Dont you girls have meetings where strategies are taught? you should have known this one since about age 15.
As long as he's seeming them/b][, don't worry.
I agree with the above opinion: you really don't know her. Give her the benefit of the doubt that she is a changed person, or at least, devoted to this fella.