I have different views than our poster, but I've no interest in her being voted down.
First of all, I don't believe in voting down re disagreement. That is lame. Learn to talk.
I can see voting down if people are multiply vile to others.
This hasn't happened here.
Why is our poster slammed? I can understand aggravation, but still.
There is nothing you can do for him to be more attracted to you. You can't explain attraction. The basics of being clean (for most :-)) and not a psychopath helps. Attraction is complex and not just about looks. Other value judgments come into it. I'd like to add a few but it's not describeable. One could say tall blond or tall dark but often the people they end up with are far different.
Just be yourself. If not attractive to him another will come.