Am I gay?

I don't know,but welcome to A2k.

No but it does scream troll.

Many people, at one time or another, have same sex attachments. The best advice I can give you is do not let these feelings define you. You have a long life ahead of you.

You're probably gay, unless you're a troll

I was gay right up until about 1970, when the meaning of the word changed.

Now I'm just full of the joys of spring.

The reason I think this is a troll has to do with the last line.

I use "girly" words a lot, like "Fabulous" or "Lovely"

It is a play on stereotypes yet you are pretending as if you are not aware of them yet specifically mentioning them as if they were.

If you don't believe they are stereotypes then why would you bring them up? Unless these words used have a connotation with them that "only" or "typical" gays use these words. So you want to use them as a signal point to determine if you are gay or not? In other words you are placing the stereotype back on the reader. If the reader agrees that ONLY gays use these words then the OP must be gay.

This is TROLL 101 behavior to get the reader to buy into the nonsense and make a claim based on a stereotype bias. In other words you are attempting to get the reader to admit to their own bigotry.

Some will fall into this trap but some notice it for what it is and avoid playing into your game. These words do not make you gay, no words make you gay. The only thing that would define you as gay is if you are attracted sexually and romantically to the same sex. So asking anything outside of what would define you is nonsensical unless you have an ulterior motive.

I remember seeing gay male porn once in my life and almost throwing up so my opinion is that if you can watch it with some enjoyment my bet is that you are indeed gay.

As others stated that is assuming you are not a troll.

I'll have to admit you have a point, K.
I just made my suggestion for the record. . . .

I think it's tacky to call a brand new poster here a troll, especially a declared young one. You don't know that person is a troll, even if you suspect it from your vast life experience.

A2k is an information site, always was meant to be that, is advertised as that, so blasting questioning posters first posts is not what the site is about.

As Neo alluded to, there is a practice here of answering questions that might turn out to be fake because others who have the same or similar question could benefit from a serious answer... and might find the question showing up on google or wherever.

Hmm two vote downs by two "straight men" who enjoy watching gay male porn no doubt............

Shaking my head in amusement.

Straight guys don't watch Gay porn, but you're 13? what are you doing watching porn in the first place?

It would seems that you are wrong as at least two straight guys who voted my posting down must enjoy gay male porn.



Good point but then I remember getting ahold of some dirty books at around that age IE in the dark ages before even color TV to go along with some pictures of naked women in National Geographic.