What does he want from me?

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Hi, its been 1 year know that I met this guy at school that I really like. We met at a party (not very romantic), he was really into me at first but I wasn't at all and as time passed I started to learn more about him and I really liked him. Since then there is this extremely intense chemistry btw use. Every time he's at the same party or club as me we can't help but staying together. But, I started to get bored of being just hook up buddies so I asked him what we were for each other, he told me he really likes me and that he has feelings for me but that with IB etc... he doesn't want to be in a relationship (ok sorry but that's total bullshit). Anyways I got the message and took my distance for a while in order to forget about those feelings I have for him. But he keeps on texting me and caring about what I do, say and feel... I don't get it, I don't know what to do. I imagined everything really but none of my scenarios can help me understand why he doesn't want us to be a couple. Any advice or explanation that I can't see ?

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@maxine1902,

maxine1902 wrote:

But, I started to get bored of being just hook up buddies

He's not bored with being hook up buddies.

Next case.

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@maxine1902,

maxine1902 wrote:

Hi, its been 1 year know that I met this guy at school that I really like. We met at a party (not very romantic), he was really into me at first but I wasn't at all and as time passed I started to learn more about him and I really liked him. Since then there is this extremely intense chemistry btw use. Every time he's at the same party or club as me we can't help but staying together. But, I started to get bored of being just hook up buddies so I asked him what we were for each other, he told me he really likes me and that he has feelings for me but that with IB etc... he doesn't want to be in a relationship (ok sorry but that's total bullshit). Anyways I got the message and took my distance for a while in order to forget about those feelings I have for him. But he keeps on texting me and caring about what I do, say and feel... I don't get it, I don't know what to do. I imagined everything really but none of my scenarios can help me understand why he doesn't want us to be a couple. Any advice or explanation that I can't see ?

What is IB?

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@chai2,

What will happened if next time he tries to hookup with me I reject him ?

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@Olivier5,

International Baccalaureate

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@maxine1902,

maxine1902 wrote:

What will happened if next time he tries to hookup with me I reject him ?

How the **** should we know?

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@chai2,

Chill I'm just looking for help ok calm your tits

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@maxine1902,

Chai has excited tits?

<pulls up chair>

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@maxine1902,

I'm fine, and my tits are too, whatever that means.

What a ridiculous question though, and you know it.

You don't want help. You want someone to tell you everything is going to be fine, and if you "reject" him he'll come around and be your real boyfriend, instead of a **** buddy.

Use your brain girl. What are the chances of that happening?

Figure it out.

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@Lordyaswas,

Lordyaswas wrote:

Chai has excited tits?

<pulls up chair>

Apparantly so.

My patellas are quite bored this morning however.

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@chai2,

Irritable Bowel, would explain a lot.

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@izzythepush,

I immediately thought that when I saw IB.

Maybe she needs some syrup of figs.

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@Lordyaswas,

Or a bucket.

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@maxine1902,

Okay. Seems he likes you but is no BF material.

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Well, it didn't take long for this thread to turn to ****.

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@maxine1902,

maxine1902 wrote:

What will happened if next time he tries to hookup with me I reject him ?

he's looking for a fuckbuddy, not a relationship
(at least that's what your OP suggests)

as long as you're available as a fuckbuddy you're interesting to him

<shrug>

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@maxine1902,

maxine1902 wrote:

Every time he's at the same party or club as me we can't help but staying together.

But, I started to get bored of being just hook up buddies

he doesn't want to be in a relationship

he doesn't want us to be a couple.

if you want to be in a relationship, this isn't the guy for you right now

if you want to be fuckbuddies, this is the guy

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@chai2,

https://gatsiesheikar.files.wordpress.com/2013/03/headdesk.png

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