@FBM,
Quote:The part I bolded is a statement made from an objective, 3rd-person, absolute frame of reference, which SR says doesn't exist.
No, I don't think so. It is what relativists actually say. But again it is not even a matter of "motion" or even of SR. It is a question of logic only.
Try this:
Al claims he is taller than Bob.
Bob claims he is taller than Al.
Is it logically possible for BOTH of them to be right?
You don't have to know how tall either of them is to answer the question.
You don't have to know who is taller (if anyone--they could be exactly the same height).
You don't need to know a single thing about them, really, to answer the question.