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Cure for pointless love

 
 
Eliusa
 
Reply Mon 26 Jan, 2015 12:03 pm
I am wondering why no one looking for cure for love that makes no sense? Why do we have to be hurt when it does not teach us anything, doesn’t make anything better, pointless to the core!!!

Scientists are trying to figure out if there is a ‘spot’ to be pushed and you lost your appetite. Where is that spot that I want to push to forget how to be pointlessly in love?
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 26 Jan, 2015 01:45 pm
You need to find out why you persist in this obsession.
(anger, hurt, fear, lack of control, sadness, loneliness?)

Therapy might help.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Wed 28 Jan, 2015 09:51 am
@PUNKEY,
How about...love? I do not remember anyone explained where love comes from and where it goes even if you pay them.
This obsession to me is very clear. I know what I am feeling.
I just wish I could stop it. I am sure he wishes the same thing.
Tons of people in this forum would go to the therapist if they could ever help.
But the question is - pills for weight loss are sold and some even work...commercials saying Smile
How about pills to numb the area where this useless heart ache is residing so the people like us can breathe? I am trying to control myself but my head and my heart are a mess!!! Why no cure for such an important issue?
Imagine money making! WoooooooooHoooooooooo
Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 28 Jan, 2015 12:22 pm
@Eliusa,
The cure - finding pointful (is that a word?) love.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Wed 28 Jan, 2015 12:41 pm
@Linkat,
It is sinful and wrong on all levels - this is why I do not get it.
Both are married with grown up kids. No 'pointful' love is possible at the given point. Only forget, stop, find other things to do, bang your spouse...are answers to this mess.
This is why pill is needed. Daily until it is gone!!!
I am not thinking of killing myself but some days my anxieties are so intense that I am feeling that I might die just from that alone.
I am seeing actual phsychoetrist in February. I can't go on like that anymore.
But if he is suggesting those pills like Cymbalta - I am out, it gives me hallucinations.
This is why I am out here for all of those idiots who are pointlessly in love.
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InfraBlue
 
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Reply Wed 28 Jan, 2015 01:10 pm
@Eliusa,
The physiological processes involved with feelings of love are pretty complex.

Some reuptake inhibitors used as antidepressants tend to mitigate libido.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Fri 30 Jan, 2015 11:25 am
@InfraBlue,
I am seeing a doctor in a few weeks, should I ask for it?
silentwatch2
 
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Reply Tue 7 Apr, 2015 10:02 am
@Eliusa,
did you find any solutions?
I would like to get more info on this
please share if you dont mind
Eliusa
 
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Reply Wed 8 Apr, 2015 09:18 am
@silentwatch2,
OMG NO!
He wouldn't let me get over him, I am dying inside and trying to find this way to stop feeling it.
Every once in a while I am saying done and no more but phone call is following and I am back. It is my Affair Anniversary this month.
A whole year of turmoil and rollercoaster.
But I am still searching...
silentwatch2
 
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Reply Thu 9 Apr, 2015 09:29 am
@Eliusa,
Glad that you have not given up
dont be sad.. just keep trying
nobody succeeded who have ever given up
but be sure you dont take this in heart. the painful heart wont find a smart way of doing things.
be in a mood for an alternative way to find the same object.
the end will always be what you need

Eliusa
 
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Reply Thu 9 Apr, 2015 11:08 am
@silentwatch2,
My heart is in pain for a whole year now.
How can you even suggest I shouldn't take it to the heart when this is where it all IS?
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maxdancona
 
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Reply Thu 9 Apr, 2015 11:26 am
The cure for pointless love is whiskey.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Fri 10 Apr, 2015 12:11 pm
@maxdancona,
Trust me, I am almost ready for AA Smile and it ain't curing anything.
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Olivier5
 
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Reply Fri 10 Apr, 2015 12:20 pm
@PUNKEY,
Quote:
Therapy might help.

Why did Shakespeare not use this great line in his 'Romeo and Juliet', I wonder.
Eliusa
 
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Reply Sat 11 Apr, 2015 11:12 am
@Olivier5,
OMG!
Olivier, you are my sole mate LOL

I would say if he did - the end could be not so dramatic
and he was all for fame. Smile
Olivier5
 
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Reply Sun 12 Apr, 2015 07:41 am
@Eliusa,
You too, Eliu... Embarrassed
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