Cure for pointless love

You need to find out why you persist in this obsession.
(anger, hurt, fear, lack of control, sadness, loneliness?)

Therapy might help.

How about...love? I do not remember anyone explained where love comes from and where it goes even if you pay them.
This obsession to me is very clear. I know what I am feeling.
I just wish I could stop it. I am sure he wishes the same thing.
Tons of people in this forum would go to the therapist if they could ever help.
But the question is - pills for weight loss are sold and some even work...commercials saying
How about pills to numb the area where this useless heart ache is residing so the people like us can breathe? I am trying to control myself but my head and my heart are a mess!!! Why no cure for such an important issue?
Imagine money making! WoooooooooHoooooooooo

The cure - finding pointful (is that a word?) love.

It is sinful and wrong on all levels - this is why I do not get it.
Both are married with grown up kids. No 'pointful' love is possible at the given point. Only forget, stop, find other things to do, bang your spouse...are answers to this mess.
This is why pill is needed. Daily until it is gone!!!
I am not thinking of killing myself but some days my anxieties are so intense that I am feeling that I might die just from that alone.
I am seeing actual phsychoetrist in February. I can't go on like that anymore.
But if he is suggesting those pills like Cymbalta - I am out, it gives me hallucinations.
This is why I am out here for all of those idiots who are pointlessly in love.

The physiological processes involved with feelings of love are pretty complex.

Some reuptake inhibitors used as antidepressants tend to mitigate libido.

I am seeing a doctor in a few weeks, should I ask for it?

did you find any solutions?
I would like to get more info on this
please share if you dont mind

OMG NO!
He wouldn't let me get over him, I am dying inside and trying to find this way to stop feeling it.
Every once in a while I am saying done and no more but phone call is following and I am back. It is my Affair Anniversary this month.
A whole year of turmoil and rollercoaster.
But I am still searching...

Glad that you have not given up
dont be sad.. just keep trying
nobody succeeded who have ever given up
but be sure you dont take this in heart. the painful heart wont find a smart way of doing things.
be in a mood for an alternative way to find the same object.
the end will always be what you need

My heart is in pain for a whole year now.
How can you even suggest I shouldn't take it to the heart when this is where it all IS?

The cure for pointless love is whiskey.

Trust me, I am almost ready for AA and it ain't curing anything.

Why did Shakespeare not use this great line in his 'Romeo and Juliet', I wonder.

OMG!
Olivier, you are my sole mate LOL

I would say if he did - the end could be not so dramatic
and he was all for fame.

You too, Eliu...