No sex but in love.

I am in this very situation, me(single) and the one im iin love with and loves me, her(married). We've been working together for awhile. Started as friends but soon that grew to more. I want to be hers but i dont want to get in her introuble with her husband. She has hinted that she wants to be mine, when we talk we talk for hours. After work we do hug eachother bye, recently its been more then hugs (brabing each others butts). Weve never kissed.

i want us to be us but i dont want to end the them

Urhhh...she is obviously not getting enough at home.
Do whatever you do carefully so you know after some times what to do later.
Here is an awesome piece of info for you:
http://doccool.com/i-am-a-single-man-in-love-with-a-married-woman/
...I've cried...

I think shes getting all the physical passion cuz her and her husband both have high sexdrives. As for the emotional side think i give her more then her husband, iv met her daughter who is 5, she said i treat her daughter better then her father does. Her daughter one day said she wanted to call me dad cuz she likes me better it made me happy cuz iv always wanted a daughter but it also made me sad cuz of her mother and i situation

WOW! That is messed up. That is seriously messed up. If she is having it all at home - she is having some whorishness in her, I guarantee it.
You've got to think hard and think about ending it as supposed to continue.
Kid of 5 y/old is a huge responsibility. Have you read my link?
I am so sorry for this happened to you, it is going to be a hard road in nowhere (most likely). Please, think and strength to you.

I don't think this thread got enough attention

Hey! How are you doing? anything new? Happy I hope...

I know this situation

How come? Any story to tell or pm? I am here to listen. Hugs...