"BF of 5 years and sex only 3 times says he really loves me without sex.

So because someone doesn't desire sex often, or at all, that means they have a problem?

I'm agreeing with everyone else on here that these 2 people are probably not a good match, but Jesus, I don't know why anyone would automatically assume someone who doesn't want sex must have a problem.

Of course there may be a medical reason, or other things may be going on (like in this case) but to tell someone they have a problem with their sexuality as far as frequency, is very wrong.

Sharing it with you girlfriend:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4aoetipR2g

I got it!!! It is unreal but have a large fluffy towel folded under your butt! and heck with that man, who needs him??? Good luck.

Most people work that out by the time they're 14, no wonder you're so ******* frustrated.

Yeah, I am glad I had been given an answer to my problem. Thanks izzy.
ROFLMAO