I cheated, when to try and touch husband?

I think you can look at it as a benefit equation rather than a moral imperative. What does the husband gain or lose by knowing? The damage to the relationship is tremendous. What is the positive for the husband? The right to take all that pain and walk away from the marriage? If the cheater wants to do right by her spouse there is a very clear case for keeping silent, sparing him that pain and working on the marriage.

The Pretenders – Do It One More Time



You believed in me
When you had nothing to gain
You stood by me
You walked out in the falling rain
To find me
Waiting in the shadows behind me

Baby please
Please
Won't you do it one more time
Do it one more time
Do it one more time
Please
Won't you do it one more time

You stayed when no one else would
When i was delayed you understood
I've done some low down things
Alright, but you said i was good
I couldn't forgive myself
But you could

Won't you please
Please
Won't you do it one more time
Do it one more time
Do it one more time
Please
Won't you do it one more time

I know i've made you promises
Then i forget
I've let you down darling
I'm forever in your debt
In my darkest hour i've
Turned you out
But when the mood has passed
You came back in spite of me
Saying "this love was meant to last"

Oh baby
Won't you please
Won't you do it one more time
Do it one more time with feeling
Oh baby
Please
Won't you do it one more time
One more time
Please
Won't you do it one more time
With feeling…

I think that long-term partnerships are based on trust. Lust only carries so far.

I may decide to forgive someone who has lied/cheated/whatever but I believe it's my right to make that decision. I'd rather have full knowledge.

I don't think there is any case to be made for not telling partners the truth about cheating/other dangers to the relationship.

_________

On the flipside, I think partners can agree upfront that sexual infidelity is not a deal-breaker - but I think it has to be done upfront.

_________

I think you have to respect whatever agreements you made as a couple.

Don't Hide Open up With Yourself & U r's Husband Then After Take a Decision.Otherwise You Cheated urself Only ...