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Mon 5 Jan, 2015 06:04 am
I broke up with her because she was such an attention whore that I had to end this relationship. She cried and begged me to come back. I never came back. We were talking about marriage before that. Three months later we are now talking through emails and she asks me who I'm living with now. And that's the response I want to send her. Should I or should I not?
"We are friends basically but kind of a couple now that we live together. But we keep it cool. No real romance. I don't think that I really want to get involved emotionally in a new relationship right now. I think that I need to keep growing and perfecting myself. I don't even feel that I'm a good guy for marriage at this very moment. It's sad but true. After a long inner questioning I had to admit that I wasn't complete enough to be in such a position yet. Thanks to you and your emasculating techniques.
There is other skills that I still need to learn and put into practice. I want to be the best man that I can be. I want to live a meaningful life. I am not going to get stuck in a position where I'm not happy with my life, my wife and my kids. I'm going to be very careful from now on regarding who I give my heart to. It's not for everyone to have. It's too precious to be given away for peanuts in return. We treat our hearts with very little respect I think these days. So yeah, I'm more focusing on me right now and the man that I really want to be, and that I will become, because I CAN, God willing. And then, this gonna be the end of the bullshit and the beginning of the awesomeness of my life."
Is this sadistic enough?
@Baltazaaar,
I think writing that response helped you know what you need to do next...Delete your response and tell her that you think it would be better if you weren't in touch for awhile - then stop emailing her and move on.
@Pearlylustre,
She made me feel like a little pussy at times. Seriously, I really want her to hurt and regret me. She just missed out.
@Baltazaaar,
Then you're even more whipped if this still bothers you.
Delete her contact info and move on. You know, like an adult does.
If you want "hurt, revenge, etc" then STOP giving her what you hated about her: ATTENTION.
WHY do you argue/talk/try to convince her about ANYTHING?
She loves to jack you up - now she's doing it with emails - and you get sucked right in. She's STILL getting her attention from you!!
Didn't you LEARN anything?
@Baltazaaar,
Baltazaaar wrote:
Is this sadistic enough?
it's proof that she still has your attention
why are you still communicating with her?
@Baltazaaar,
Sounds to me like you think there are guarantees in life...No sir. Marriage is work and so are kids. Better do some growing up first.
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