How to deal with your boyfriend who doesn't stop using dating site?

If it were me ... or more apropos - my sister this happened to, I'd advise to pack his bags. Do want a relationship so badly you're willing to be lied to repeatedly? He betrayed you again.

Agree....

You caught him again and still staying...great message to send out.

I'm definitely feeling betrayed... again. We haven't really talked since I found out so we will be discussing it tonight... At this point I'm not feeling like its fixable, maybe after the first time if he had actually stopped, but there is no way I can trust him again and not to mention I have a 2.5 year old daughter that I need to think about.. She's going to be at an age soon that something like this would be hurting her too.

Thanks for your input

I wish you the best. Stand firm. There's no excuse for that sort of abuse and neglect.

My point is that by staying you are saying you have no self-esteem ...you are ok with him wiping your feet on you...drop the victim role.

He lies to you, and he lies on that dating site.

Thank you everyone, well except germlat. Germlat please remind me where in my question I asked for someone to tell me what I think of myself. I'm not playing a victim I'm asking a valid question on a forum.. I believe that's what they are here for! If you don't have anything nice to day don't say anything at all! Maybe somebody should have taught you that a long time ago because ignorance is not a good quality. You must have never been in love and had someone hurt you. Ha. Your the reason why people like me don't like asking questions on forums, I don't need someone telling me what I think of myself or judging me as you don't know me or what I've been through so there is no way you know what your talking about based off one question. If you don't like what you read keep scrolling.

Why stay with someone like that? It's an awful position for you to be in and it sends a terrible message to your daughter, that being with an untrustworthy liar is somehow better than being alone.

Pack your bags (or just cut all contact; I have no idea what your living situation is vis a vis him) and hit the bricks with your head held high.