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Mon 24 Nov, 2014 08:04 am
So this guy has been one of my good friends since we were little. I know he has always been kind of a flirt but he never flirted with friends. Some days ago he started texting me. He doesn't normally text me. I texted back. Then he started asking me if I would like to talk about sex. Okay, so I'm in no way comfortable talking about sex to a friend. I said I couldn't but he started saying please and just one time and stuff but I refused. The next day too he started asking me some really uncomfortable questions. So I didn't reply. After a day, I thought that I should just text him and make small talk. He didn't reply. But that night he again started saying all that stuff. Whenever we're in class he acts as if nothing happened. Its really confusing and awkward. What should I do?
@Krrypton,
U can start by telling him that u don 't wanna discuss sex.
David
Ask him WTF!?
How dare he USE you for dirty talk, then ignore you in the "real world."
He's creepy. Weird. Stay away.
@Krrypton,
Sounds like he just wants to sext. Don't chase him if you don't want to do that.
But he is a good friend and has been for years. He is also always present in my friend circle. So kinda hard to ignore. Also, I told him I didn't want to talk it but he just keeps on persisting.
@Krrypton,
Block him on social media. Tell your friends why if they ask.
Be honest.
@Krrypton,
Krrypton wrote:
But he is a good friend and has been for years.
maybe he once was. Now he is disrespecting your wishes. Friends don't do that.
@ehBeth,
Agreed. He's using your friendship to exploit you.
It's hard to do, but it's important to realize when things change.
@Krrypton,
Did he ran out of strangers and moved onto friends? Weird.