Gay relationship question.

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okay. So over the weekend I told a guy over text that I was gay and he just kind of shrugged it off saying it's not a big deal. Ever since then he has texted me everyday and before he didn't even initiate a conversation with me. He just keeps the conversations simple but he is texting me a lot more. Does he sound like he could be gay or do you think he is just trying to be nicer to me because he feels bad for me?

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[+3] - anon123210 - 11/16/2014Or just straight.

Who knows? but you can't do anything by texting your life away. Ask him if he wants to hang out. Then - and only then - you will find out what's going on with him. At least you will know in PERSON.

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@anon123210,

He said it's no big deal. To me that means he doesn't care whether you are or not and intends to keep conversing with you. The conversations you state are "simple" so he's not coming onto you or flirting.

Are you asking because you are interested in him? Or concerned that because you stated that, he may think that you are when you aren't.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Mostly because I'm interested in him.

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@anon123210,

I thought so. So that's why you told him.

Do you know his friends, does he have a face-book account? Perhaps with a little digging you can establish whether he is as well.

OR, given you came straight out with it and good for you, why not just ask him more about his life.. If he has a girlfriend, what he thinks of marriage you know, general conversation that can give you an idea.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Plus the usual friendly chatter that we all engage in when we're interested in someone.

PS Good on ya for just coming out (heh, bad pun) and declaring yourself. Smile

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@FOUND SOUL,

Yeah I think he has a facebook account, plus I have him on snapchat. I will be sure to bring up those questions in my conversation. When I told him all he really said was, "ya know this doesn't change our friendship bud." But I do know he has had a girlfriend in the past. So maybe he's bi but idk

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@anon123210,

Or just straight.

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@anon123210,

Or ya going to find out Smile

You know? Even if he is straight. He said it won't changed your friendship, so once you know which way it goes, you've got a new/good friend: ) Or, a potential new relationship.

Plenty of fish in the sea..... we want to know though... and wish you the best, you can't loose either way anon.

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@anon123210,

Anon - I hope you can have lots of friends in your life, no matter what their sexual preference is. That's why I encouraged you to actually hang out with this person.

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@FOUND SOUL,

Yes I will. Thank you!

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