@Tomwill,
Just to ad.
You don't believe her. Always trust your gut instinct. If you did, you wouldn't be thinking of "checking her mobile and Skype"... If you already have to resort to snooping "before" you've even met a potential mate, think about it. That's not good.. In-fact snooping is not good.
Also. Dating sites are that. For dating. Trying to find a partner you can be happy with and hoping it's going to be a long lasting one.
Here you say " I've entered into a relationship" from a dating site, the woman is a con woman looking for cash/support for her daughter and I haven't met her yet.....
Why have you entered into a relationship? Was she that good looking? Are you that lonely?
Respect yourself. She's out there. .....