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My wife cheated

 
 
Ragman
 
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Reply Mon 14 Sep, 2015 04:27 pm
@BirdyBunny,
hey jackass, check the date-stamp. You're talking to yourself.
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Violet35
 
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Reply Fri 12 Feb, 2016 07:47 pm
@Joe beach,
I sought the attention of other men when my husband hadn't really touched me in a couple of years. I don't think it's fair to get complacent and neglectful, but it's also not OK or fair to cheat. So, for you, I am sorry for both of you, actually. I know I wouldn't have strayed had I not been in so much pain, and felt SO lonely, but it's not an excuse. I needed to understand that it's not my husband's job to "make me happy." It's his job to love me and make me his priority, though. And the same goes for me. Saying I was lonely, isn't an excuse, but It IS an explanation. If you don't take care of your spouse, someone else WILL. I hate to say it, but that is true. Women want and need to feel desired, and it rally doesn't take that much time, money and effort to get that across. I am not BLAMING YOU. I am saying, though, that affairs don't start with the sex act. They don't happen in a vacuum. You both have a part in it, and the only chance my husband and I for mending our marriage, was getting radically HONEST, and really wanting and being committed to making it work. Staying together to keep your lifestyle is not a good enough reason to stay married. I would get counseling, for yourself, and as a couple. Don't put up with any love triangles, either. The cousin needs to be out of the picture. I am so sorry this happened, and I know that you must be in a lot of pain. Best wishes.
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adriw7878
 
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Reply Thu 6 Jul, 2017 05:24 am
@Joe beach,
I suspected my wife of doing such acts as I was semi paralysed 3 yrs ago. I told her we can separate due to my condition and she having told me her urges are stronger these days. She refused but comes home from work (Mon-Fri) around midnight.
I am getting a PI to check her late hours.
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adriw7878
 
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Reply Wed 6 Sep, 2017 12:23 pm
@Joe beach,
Hi Joe,
Sorry to hear your situation. You worked hard for the family and really pains you if wife was really having plans to shack up with someone else.
It seems your wife is really scared to lose you now ...knowing you are the one putting bread on the table.
Tell her what you expect from her and move on and have a great relationship.
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ChadSoul
 
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Reply Fri 19 Oct, 2018 03:03 am
@Joe beach,
Sorry Bro but your wife was getting screwed by that young buck, she regrets it and wants to continue the marriage but you're just security to her. She is missing something with you and seeking that thrill from others. If not him, then it will be someone else. You're better off ending it.
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RamitaThule
 
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Reply Tue 20 Nov, 2018 01:31 pm
Its better to discuss your story with marriage counselor, you may get the best solution
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geetika12
 
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Reply Tue 27 Nov, 2018 06:15 am
@Joe beach,
oh ****, you need to talk with her at this topic clearly
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fuski
 
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Reply Tue 27 Nov, 2018 12:48 pm
@Joe beach,
Just find the strength to part and stop deceiving yourself, you should not forgive anything!
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Sonic232
 
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Reply Sun 2 Dec, 2018 08:31 am
Having more sex isn’t going to help. That’s my opinion. Call her out on her lies until she tells the full truth.
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himanshukhaira
 
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Reply Mon 3 Dec, 2018 02:04 am
@Joe beach,
just leave her and move ahead in your life.
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geetika12
 
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Reply Mon 10 Dec, 2018 03:57 am
@Joe beach,
Replay your relations like early marriage
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