doglover wrote:Seriously, I wouldn't buy that house unless your wife agrees to sign a post nup agreement. I think it's most important that you look out for your own best interest first and foremost. If she won't sign a post nup, I wouldn't buy the house without getting a divorce first or stay married and don't buy the house.
Firstly being married is not about looking out for your own interests. And if you were at these early stages of your marriage, i would be pretty damned annoyed at you if you were my husband.
Why dont you trust your wife? do you think that in a couple of years she would be leaving you?
I agree choose the house or the wife.
It sounds to me like you are a pretty insensitive jerk of a husband to not have faith in your marriage beyond two years.
Is it common for americans to value marriage as so little? Do you guys see it as another progression of dating, if it doesnt work out i can ditch the wife and get another... and another... and another...
I dont think the issue has anything to do with the house. I think this is about your selfishness. How much do you love your wife?
My partner and I share everything... and we are not even married. Our income is jointly shared and spent evenly between us irrespective of who is the greater income earner.
I think you basically have to stop being a such a selfish dick and respect your wife and marriage a little more.
If my partner made me sign a pre-nup or post-nup he wouldn't have a wife.
So, all in all, do you want the house or a marriage?