http://www.mycentraljersey.com/story/news/crime/jersey-mayhem/2014/10/10/charged-sayreville-football-hazing-case/17075723/
The complaints charge that on various dates between Sept. 19 and Sept. 29 one or more of the players either held the victims against their will, while others improperly touched the victims in a sexual manner.
It also is charged that in one instance, one of the victims was kicked during an attack.
Thillet's mother, Madeline, said during last week's contentious school board meeting, during which dozens of players and their parents protested Labbe's decision to shut down the football program, "I was at the police station with him when they were questioning him. They were talking about a butt being grabbed. That's about it. No one was hurt. No one died. I don't understand why they're being punished."
College fraternities under fire for hazing, offensive behavior
By Mark Pace - The Washington Times
October 12, 2014
A University of Southern Mississippi sophomore faces grand larceny charges after a fraternity scavenger hunt resulted in the death of two Chilean flamingos at the Hattiesburg Zoo. The Texas Tech chapter of Phi Delta Theta lost its charter after displaying a banner at a September party that is unfit for print. Clemson University last month suspended all social activities for some two dozen fraternities following the August death of a student and what officials say are a “high number” of incidents “ranging from alcohol-related medical emergencies to sexual misconduct.”
The incidents range from the weird to the crude to the fatal, but they’re fueling a growing debate about the role of fraternities in college life and sparking a backlash on at least some campuses against Greek life.
More than 60 people have died since 2005 in fraternity-related incidents, according to Bloomberg Data, and more than 70 colleges and universities are under investigation after accusations that the institutions improperly handled sexual assault cases.
Citing cases of alcohol abuse, sexual and racial harassment and hazing, some small liberal arts schools have already banned fraternities altogether, including Middlebury College and Colby College. Connecticut’s Wesleyan College sparked headlines last month when it announced it was forcing the school’s three residential fraternities to go co-ed. Dartmouth College, whose fraternities helped inspire the movie “Animal House,” recently mandated the end of pledge season, the source for many hazing incidents.
“To improve their situation, [fraternities need to] eliminate, or at least reduce as much as possible, these violent and sexist images and any behavior that goes along with them,” said Alan Reifman, a professor of human development and family studies at Texas Tech. “That would be a major step to improve the situation.”
The offensive banner was not the only serious incident involving fraternities at the Lubbock, Texas, school.
Police responding to noise complaints at a house near Texas Tech the weekend before classes began early last month found a party full of college students celebrating before their first day of classes, many of whom were underage. The police left, but they returned a few hours later. This time, the call was more serious.
Dalton Debrick, an 18-year-old freshman rushing the Alpha Sigma Phi fraternity, was found dead at the off-campus party. The cause of death was later determined to be acute alcohol intoxication. The fraternity was closed on the Texas Tech campus for a minimum of four years.
A Penn State student committed suicide after being hazed by members of Phi Sigma Kappa. His parents found pictures on his phone of a man blindfolded with a gun to his head, and they also found messages explaining that pledges had to choose between penetrating themselves with a sex toy or snorting cocaine, according to Bloomberg. The chapter was suspended for six years.
“I see not only our campus but all campuses struggling with the question around the direction the fraternities need to take, and how that will fit in with the overall institution of the school,” said Michael Laliberte, vice chancellor for student affairs at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee.
Ban fraternities?
Fraternity defenders say anecdotal evidence tends to overstate the role the all-male societies play in the problems that face all colleges and universities. Most fraternity brothers do not get caught in disciplinary problems, must answer to campus overseers and their national chartering organization and tend to be more loyal — and generous — to their school once they graduate.
Banning organized on-campus fraternities, they argue, and the drinking, socializing and other mischief that college students engage in will simply move to off-campus, unregulated sites, making the problem even worse.
Bans “don’t accomplish anything,” Thomas Fox, national executive director of Psi Upsilon, told the publication Inside Higher Ed recently.
“The problems that fraternities and sororities [entail] exist outside of the Greek system as well. We offer educational opportunities to help combat these issues and have alumni volunteers to help mentor our members. When done right, we are complementing the academic mission of the institutions where we exist,” he said.
Peter Smithhisler, president and chief executive officer of the umbrella North American Interfraternity Conference, said it has become “increasingly fashionable to denigrate the college fraternity experience as little more than an organized excuse to misbehave.”
In a blog post this spring, Mr. Smithhisler argued that fraternities must do a better job of policing themselves — and highlight the charitable and social work they do — if they want to counter a rising anti-fraternity tide. Among his recommendations: Eliminate hazing, enforce drinking restrictions and regularly self-assess the health of each house.
“If we intend to preserve all that is right with today’s fraternity movement, we must improve our efforts to address that which is wrong,” he wrote.
But some independent research points to troubling signs related to Greek life and culture. Two studies in 2007 and 2009 by NASPA, the professional group for student affairs administrators in higher education, found that fraternity members were three times as likely to commit rape as the average college student and twice as likely to engage in binge drinking and other problem activities.
Most see eliminating Greek organizations at big public schools, where there may be dozens of sororities and fraternities with thousands of members, as unrealistic. But how to temper the abuses while saving the system remains a major challenge.
While there are certainly fraternities involved in inappropriate and extreme behavior, there are unmistakable benefits that fraternities bring to campuses. The question is whether the bad is starting to outweigh the good.
“Overall, I would say that [fraternities] are very positive,” the University of Wisconsin’s Mr. Laliberte said.
Mr. Reifman said that the fraternity question must be examined on a “house-by-house” basis, but he added that there are certainly houses and chapters making a major positive impact on their community and institution.
Fraternities such as Alpha Sigma Phi are giving presentations on sexual assault prevention as well as how to behave during social events. At Indiana University, Alpha Sigma Phi and 20 other fraternities released statements condemning sexual assault.
Zeta Beta Tau brothers at George Washington University raised $17,000 for the Children’s Miracle Network last year, and they are also educating members about inappropriate behavior.
“We worked together to provide programming for our members, which included teaching them about safe dating practices and what to look for among friends when they’re facing situations that may be uncomfortable for them,” Daniel Egel-Weiss, president of Zeta Beta Tau, said.
Mr. Egel-Weiss said his chapter has never had an instance of inappropriate behavior since it was established on the George Washington campus in 2007. He also said most fraternities don’t have instances of such actions, but the instances that do happen point “to mismanagement of the individual fraternity chapter rather than fraternity culture.”
http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2014/oct/12/colleges-fraternities-under-fire-for-hazing-deaths/?page=all
CSUN fraternity shuts down after pledge's death during hazing
By Caitlin Owens, Ruben Vives
Sept 5, 2014
Piled onto sleeping bags, they looked dehydrated and lacked cellphones. About a mile down the road, one member of the group, Cal State Northridge student Armando Villa, 19, lay barefoot and blistered in a ditch.
A hiker who had come across the men watched as a firefighter began administering CPR until Villa was airlifted to a local hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
Villa's death July 1 shocked the college community, and for two months, the other Pi Kappa Phi pledges who took part in the event that day have revealed little about what happened.
But on Friday, Cal State Northridge administrators released the results of a university investigation that concluded the fraternity had engaged in hazing and that Villa and other pledges ran out of water well before finishing a mandatory hike for students hoping to join the fraternity.
School President Dianne F. Harrison announced that the fraternity was shutting down its campus chapter after voting this week to withdraw from the university.
"Hazing is stupid, senseless, it is dangerous and it is against the law in California," Harrison, said. "It is a vestige of toxic thinking in which somehow it is OK to degrade, to humiliate and potentially harm others....It will not be tolerated."...
http://www.latimes.com/
Males Are More Likely To Suffer Sexual Assault Than To Be Falsely Accused Of It
12/08/2014
by Tyler Kingkade
In the aftermath of Rolling Stone's flawed story about an alleged gang rape at the University of Virginia, there has been a rush of concern in certain quarters over the supposed male victims. People have been claiming that Jackie, the UVa student at the center of the story, is part of a trend in false rape reports.
The idea that women are deceptively "crying rape" is not something new. But besides misrepresenting what we know about Jackie's case -- no one with knowledge of the alleged incident has stated that an assault did not happen and the Charlottesville, Virginia, police told HuffPost that they're still investigating -- it misses two key truths.
False rape reports are rare. And the men and boys who are victims in sexual assault cases are far more likely to have been the targets of abuse themselves than to have been falsely accused of sexual violence.
According to a 2010 paper from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about 40 percent of gay men, 47 percent of bisexual men and 21 percent of heterosexual men in the U.S. "have experienced sexual violence other than rape at some point in their lives."
A compilation of research at 1in6.org, an advocacy group for male survivors, suggests that at least 1 in 6 boys experience sexual abuse before age 18. The key caveat: The numbers are likely higher in reality because male victims are less likely to disclose their abuse than female victims.
False accusations that men committed rape look to be far less common.
David Lisak, a leading sexual assault researcher and consultant to colleges and the military, has found false rape reports to be about 8 percent of the total. An analysis of research on false rape claims by Lisak, San Diego police Sgt. Joanne Archambault and Kimberly Lonesway at the National Center for the Prosecution of Violence Against Women put the figure somewhere between 2 and 8 percent. Yet another study from the Crown Prosecution Service in the United Kingdom concluded that false reports constituted about 6 percent of rape allegations. Twenty-year-old data from the U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics put the number of unfounded rape reports at 8 percent, thought not all unfounded reports are necessarily false.
How that percentage might change if women felt more comfortable reporting sexual assault is unclear. But many never report what happened to them. A Department of Justice study from 2000 found that fewer than 5 percent of completed and attempted rapes of collegiate women are reported to police, and that figure drops for other forms of sexual violence.
"This is where we need to be careful that we don't just let the squeaky wheel get the grease," said Lisa Maatz, vice president of government relations at the American Association of University Women.
The fact that sexual assault against males is more common than false accusations of males committing sexual assault is "ironic," Maatz said, but she noted this is why Title IX, the federal law that requires colleges to deal with sexual violence and harassment, is gender-neutral.
"Title IX is supposed to improve the climate and ensure anyone who goes to college has the same opportunity at an education," Maatz said. "That to me is what colleges are all about. I wish colleges could understand this is a tool that they should be embracing."
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/08/false-rape-accusations_n_6290380.html
Rolling Stone presented Jackie’s story as a powerful symbol for how rape victims are denied justice across America. When it was revealed that the magazine had torpedoed itself, Jackie, and UVA in its negligent reporting, it gave anti-rape activists the opportunity to disavow the false framework that Jackie is somehow emblematic of victims everywhere. Instead, many doubled down. Under the hashtags #IStandWithJackie and #IBelieveJackie, feminists lent their support for Jackie’s story, noting that certain aspects of her experience resonate with the way that other rape victims have been shamed and disbelieved. “We know institutions will bring their power to bear to obfuscate sexual violence. That's why we stand with survivors. #IBelieveJackie,” the National Alliance to End Sexual Violence tweeted. By using Jackie’s individual story, which was already coming under legitimate scrutiny, to reinforce the movement’s broader narrative about how sexual assault operates, and boosting the message with activist hashtags, they bet the big story on the strength of one anecdote. That’s a mistake.
As a man, if you were repeatedly raped by another man, would you prefer to be dead?
No one deserves to be raped.
Women are targets by men, you wonder why women of this Century learn to fight.
We are the weaker sex where strength is concerned
Quote:As a man, if you were repeatedly raped by another man, would you prefer to be dead?
No. I would be angry as ******* hell, but I would use that anger to rebuild my life.
Quote:No one deserves to be raped.
True.
Quote:Women are targets by men, you wonder why women of this Century learn to fight.
That's not a complete picture of the story. You see, privileged, wealthy, white
women are the single biggest purveyors of the victim narrative. They sit in their comfortable homes (largely paid for by their husbands), drinking their lattes, playing around on their iPhones (of which they could never conceive the idea of why an invention/innovation such as this works the way it does, yet they have zero problem reaping the benefit of this creation by the very "nerds" that they have deemed unworthy or their romantic attention.)
It's all about privilege. It's all about a victim narrative. And nothing screams this more than middle to upper class white women claiming to be victimized by those goddamn "misogynist" men!
Quote:We are the weaker sex where strength is concerned
If you ever said this to a feminist, you would be denounced as a heretic, because according to feminists sexual dimorphism does not exist. Gender is a social construct. Women are just as physically strong as men are! So to claim otherwise is sexist!
You see, privileged, wealthy, white women are the single biggest purveyors of the victim narrative. They sit in their comfortable homes (largely paid for by their husbands), drinking their lattes, playing around on their iPhones (of which they could never conceive the idea of why an invention/innovation such as this works the way it does, yet they have zero problem reaping the benefit of this creation by the very "nerds" that they have deemed unworthy or their romantic attention.)
It's all about privilege. It's all about a victim narrative. And nothing screams this more than middle to upper class white women claiming to be victimized by those goddamn "misogynist" men!
I'm just curious, did you learn this bullshit at asshole college, or were you born this way.
Nonono wants a sugar daddy, he's just jealous.
No. I would be angry as ******* hell, but I would use that anger to rebuild my life.
That's not a complete picture of the story. You see, privileged, wealthy, white women are the single biggest purveyors of the victim narrative. They sit in their comfortable homes (largely paid for by their husbands), drinking their lattes, playing around on their iPhones (of which they could never conceive the idea of why an invention/innovation such as this works the way it does, yet they have zero problem reaping the benefit of this creation by the very "nerds" that they have deemed unworthy or their romantic attention.)
It's all about privilege. It's all about a victim narrative. And nothing screams this more than middle to upper class white women claiming to be victimized by those goddamn "misogynist" men!
whilst she tries to re-build her life, a life she never had to try to re-build if it wasn't for some jerk thinking he could take.
D works two jobs, I work two jobs, both of us own our businesses, shirt I'm onto a third which stems from the core of my business, sometimes 12hrs a day is not un-usual in-fact that happens at least two to three times a week for both of us. We sip our chardonnay, sit down and talk about our day, cook dinner and ohnono we even have sex....
Honestly it's disrespectful to rant over 1 type of "person" when the World is made up by many.
glitterbag, literally the only thing you do in your posts regarding me, is straw man attack me by misrepresenting my points and making unfounded generalizations about myself and any men who disagree with a popular narrative.
According to you, ANY man who disagrees with the feminist narrative is a "rape apologist".
You are clearly of very low intelligence.
. . . I missed the memo declaring Dr. Somners Queen of all women.