I don't know. Generally, the women are wearing something hot, or in a fantasy costume of some description before they take their clothes off.
According to you you're braver than the soldiers coming back home from Iraq and Afghanistan, because you voluntarily chose to skydive and everything they did was part of their job.
There's nothing brave about searching for extreme pornography on the dark web, it is quite stupid to boast about such activity though.
My "personal attacks" have consisted of repeating details you've already disclosed
And nobody in their right mind thinks going to a children's play area with a box of kittens is an acceptable way to get kittens rehomed.
Most victims of domestic violence take out restraining orders against their abusive partners, not the other way around.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/liz-mandarano/the-worst-thing-a-woman-c_b_837636.html
There are between 2 and 3 million temporary restraining orders issued in the United States annually*. Despite their huge impact on a person's emotional and financial well-being, in order to receive a temporary "stay away" order of protection, one needs only to allege that he or she "feels" threatened by their partner. There does not need to be any history of domestic violence whatsoever. There does not have to be an actual verbal threat of domestic violence either. Likewise, there does not need to be evidence of a major overt act, such as stalking or purchasing a weapon.
It is a well-known fact within the matrimonial legal community that many lawyers and their clients use these orders of protection to gain a strategic advantage over their spouse from which it is difficult to recover. And since no judge wants to be the one who "gets it wrong" leading to a tragic result, these orders are easily obtained.
What does the accuser have to gain in misusing orders of protection? A lot of things, including the following:
Judicial requests for exclusive use and occupancy of a marital residence are not often granted, and can take up to six months for a ruling. Therefore, unless an allegation of threat of immediate harm is claimed, couples are forced to live under the same roof unless they can come to some form of agreement. Orders of protection force the accused to immediately leave the residence.
It sets a precedent for custody. Joint custody is presumed. However, if a permanent order of protection is issued containing a finding of domestic abuse, that finding cannot later be disputed. As a result, in many jurisdictions, there is suddenly a rebuttable presumption that the victim should have legal custody. Also, the longer a parent's access to a child is limited, the less likely that person will be deemed the primary caregiver. In fact, often the accused spouse's children are now afraid of their father. Many upstanding citizens are shocked to find themselves automatically subject to supervised visitation with a social worker. This may confuse children, wishing to "please" their mother, and scar them unnecessarily for life.
It serves as a bargaining chip--many men are forced to agree to a permanent order of protection either of the same or more limited scope in return for something else such as lower spousal support or more access to children.
It drains resources. It gives the accuser the upper hand in property litigation and spousal support. The ousted spouse has no access to their financial documents, tax forms, personal property, safe deposits, deeds, etc. Although he can always request from his wife's attorney or the court that these items be made available, the process often takes time, and requests for compliance are often ignored.
It emotionally puts men on the defense. They have no access to their belongings and family. There is the mad dash to find a new place, new clothes, furniture, etc. He is now known as the "bad guy." And, if he acts too aggressively to refute the allegations, it may make him suddenly seem more menacing. The innocent who are accused are therefore thrown into overwhelming turmoil from which it is difficult to recover.
It creates a windfall for the attorneys. Once a stay away order is issued, the parties cannot communicate with each other. All communications must therefore be carried out via the parties' lawyers. As a result, there is a strong incentive for the less ethically minded lawyer to protract a legal battle by encouraging this tactic.
There has been a small effort to address the problem, but none have made significant
efforts to remedy it. In New Jersey, in 2008, one trial judge found that the current standard of proof was unconstitutional in that it violated the defendant's right to due process, and required the stricter "clear and convincing evidence standard." However, the Appellate Division overturned the ruling, which was upheld by the New Jersey Supreme Court**.
In 2005, The Family Law News, California State Bar's official publication in the field, noted
that the state issued on average 250,000 orders of protection annually. It acknowledged that the issuance of such orders were "routine" and conceded that they were misused by parties seeking to "jockey" for an advantage in custody matters and as retaliation***. Similarly, the Illinois Bar Journal called orders of protection "part of the gamesmanship of divorce****."
A few recent studies examine this problem. One study found that 59% of allegations of domestic violence between couples involved in custody disputes could not be substantiated by the courts as true*****. A 2008 analysis of orders issued in one county in West Virginia concluded that 81% were unnecessary or false******. A 2010 review by Connecticut's Judicial Department noted that ex parte orders increased over 25% from 2003 and 2004, and that nothing was being done to stop frivolous requests*******.
And nobody in their right mind thinks going to a children's play area with a box of kittens is an acceptable way to get kittens rehomed.
Some women enjoy erotic literature, or romance novels, or rape fantasies, these are all harmless escapism in controlled form
Does a man who enjoys action movies really want to walk out of the theater and find bombs and trucks exploding all over the place, around him, in the real world?
I'm really tired of listening to your A Voice For Men canned spiel and I think drinking so much of Paul Elam's Kool Aid has affected your capacity for objective and rational thought. All your carping and whining about an alleged feminist/female supremacy conspiracy doesn't do a thing to rectify any of those problems you feel disadvantage men. Don't blame women if they are better organized and more effective lobbyists to accomplish their societal goals--and they don't accomplish those goals by just yakking on internet forums.
The topic is rape--the crime of rape.
Alan Young, a law professor at Osgoode Hall Law School at York University in Toronto, says existing legal precedents may allow prosecutions for BDSM-style sex -- regardless of whether consent was received -- if the courts think bodily harm occurred.
A 1991 Supreme Court of Canada decision held that consent isn't a defence for a criminal act of assault where one of the perpetrators intends and causes bodily harm, he added. That decision was in the context of consensual street brawls, Young explained, and the boundary line for what's considered bodily harm is still being interpreted.
"There have been cases of convictions for what might be called rough sex, but everything will turn on the facts because you have to know the intent of the accused and the extent of the injuries," he said.
Brenda Cossman, a professor of law at the University of Toronto, said the law in Canada hasn't clearly dealt with BDSM practices such as "safe words," which are used in rough sex where the submissive partner has a code word to indicate they wish to practice to stop.
"It's a very, very murky area," she said.
In 1995, the Ontario Court of Appeal applied the Supreme Court of Canada decision to a case of sexual assault causing bodily harm and upheld a conviction, despite consent.
"It could apply in a BDSM case," she said.
"If there were ... permanent scars left, I would say that would be something the courts might consider to be bodily harm. ... No matter how much the person is consenting to it, the courts can still say, 'That's not something you're allowed to consent to.'
Read more: http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/rough-painful-consensual-sex-is-murky-legal-area-experts-1.2074687#ixzz3JXycOEOV
...And that is my biology at work. We men are slaves to our reptile brains and our evolution. But I wish that society would recognize that we are so much more than that.
But don't let that discount my flattery when I say that's it's nice to hear from you again FS. You are an attractive lady; and I say that without ever having met you, or seen a picture of you
Family of elderly rape victim: 'We have a voice for her'
By Tracy Vedder
Nov 18, 2014
AUBURN, Wash. -- The family of an elderly woman is speaking out about how they used a "nanny cam" to catch the man charged with raping her. And the family also wants to know why the state didn't do more to protect their grandmother.
"How could this happen in a place that looked so good?" said Gary Moon.
Moon placed the hidden camera in his mother in law's room a week ago, but he never could have imagined what he would soon record. The elderly 83-year old woman suffers from dementia, doesn't speak and had been living at the A. A. Adult Family Home in Auburn for the past three and a half years.
Gary and Shari Moon, the woman's adult daughter, chose the home because it was close to where they lived and looked like a caring family environment.
But after Shari Moon found a pattern of bruising on her mother's arms she got worried. It's tough on dementia patients every time they move into a new environment, so rather than just moving her to a new home, the family decided to try the nanny cam first, to find out for certain if caregivers were handling the elderly woman too roughly.
Instead of rough handling, the family and charges filed today by the King County Prosecutor's Office say the hidden camera captured the owner of the home, Laszlo Molnar, sexually assaulting the elderly woman.
The family immediately called police, who arrested owner Molnar last Thursday.
"I want him to know," said granddaughter Chrissy Black, "that even though he didn't think she has a voice - we have a voice for her."
Molnar is out of jail after posting a $200,000 bond Saturday. Since then, prosecutors have charged him with rape, upped the bond to $750,000 and asked that he surrender his passport, saying that as a Russian citizen he's a flight risk...
http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Family-of-Elderly-Rape-Victim-Speaks-Out-283130601.html
The topic is neither your difficulties getting laid, nor your envy of women because they allegedly don't have that problem.
Your puerile rants about "feminists" border on the bizarre in the context of a discussion about rape--particularly the rape of women--given the magnitude of your disconnect from the reality of the crime of rape, and how most people view the issue of such crimes, and why they want laws to deter such crimes.
Vulnerable women, of any age, can be sought out and preyed on by sexual predators-
and the statistics are all too real
whether she's a 20 year old, incapacitated by alcohol,
Trying to deny the reality of rape, or the nature of rape, or trying to see it as a crime that victimizes the rapists, is absurd, just as is most of what you post.
You could say that it sucks, that you men are wired in the manner of which you are when you see an attractive lady or a woman that smiles.... Apparently though you are the hunters.
If you think on that note, we therefore "have" to find you attractive to be hunted, though the cave man days apparently, the man didn't care, you know, drag her by the hair and claim her. Well I think that still happens
I wonder where the "Father" instincts come out. Mmm maybe later in life?
which is a sad shame because young women just feel free, safe, just want to have fun and un-aware for the most part of a lot of things to be wary of.
or the other rapes of all the other very elderly women that occur all the time
why do you think that 83 year old, with dementia and unable to speak, was selected to be repeatedly raped in her adult home bed by the owner of the home?
If rape was really as prevalent in society as feminist ideologues would have you believe, the president would likely declare a state of emergency and perhaps institute martial law.
Probably because the person who raped her was some level of sociopath who enjoys raping
I'm not even really sure what you're asking me
rapes are at a many decades low
If rape was in fact one in four or five event what parents would allowed their daughters to go to colleges until martial law was declare on those campuses?
To try to pump numbers up the government needed to demand under threat of cutting off federal funding to colleges that they set up kangaroo "courts" without due processes and the very low standard of more likely then not, while redefining the issue of consent on top of it.