Why would a man rather masturbate than be with a woman or his wife?

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Why would a man rather masturbate than be with a woman or his wife? She looks like what most men fantasize about, yet he'd rather masturbate to porno. What is that all about?

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[+5] - jespah - 08/29/2014'Cause he only has to worry about satisfying one person.
[+4] - CoastalRat - 08/30/2014[quote]What is that all about? [/quote] Beats me.
[+3] - ossobuco - 08/29/2014This is a one-sided question.

@kittytruelove777,

'Cause he only has to worry about satisfying one person.

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@kittytruelove777,

very simple... with a woman it's a whole process... Even if it's a f*ck-buddy, there's always some sort of ambience that has to be setup, it takes time, he has to satisfy her, get satisfied and in the end there's always that obligation of having to be caring and spoon or stay laying down... That takes about 30min... AT LEAST! Now imagine if it's with a love interest... you have to add at least half an hour on top of that

Now, when you jack off, you can choose the best porn, bang it out in 10minutes and you can go on with your life... Sometimes the guy just wants to relieve stress and doesn't want to be involved with the whole process of love-making. It's not that he doesn't love the woman or doesn't desire.. he just wants a quick fix... sometimes you don't want to have a full 6course meal.. you just want a snickers bar... get it?

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@TyrionGuy,

TyrionGuy wrote:

very simple... with a woman it's a whole process... Even if it's a f*ck-buddy, there's always some sort of ambience that has to be setup, it takes time, he has to satisfy her, get satisfied and in the end there's always that obligation of having to be caring and spoon or stay laying down... That takes about 30min... AT LEAST! Now imagine if it's with a love interest... you have to add at least half an hour on top of that

Now, when you jack off, you can choose the best porn, bang it out in 10minutes and you can go on with your life... Sometimes the guy just wants to relieve stress and doesn't want to be involved with the whole process of love-making. It's not that he doesn't love the woman or doesn't desire.. he just wants a quick fix... sometimes you don't want to have a full 6course meal.. you just want a snickers bar... get it?

Great response!

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@kittytruelove777,

Bottom line:
Aside from those marooned alone on a desert island.
Selfishness

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This is a one-sided question.

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@ossobuco,

Mmmphmph!
Stifling nearly a dozen sinister replies

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@neologist,

why would it be selfish? I'd agree that it would be selfish if the guy wouldn't want to satisfy the girl later.... I don't know if this is the case...

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@kittytruelove777,

kittytruelove777 wrote:

She looks like what most men fantasize about, yet he'd rather masturbate to porno. What is that all about?

Men have spiritual/emotional needs as well as women. They have hearts and minds as well as dicks. Maybe he doesn't like her. Maybe she is annoying to him or has a crap personality or they just plain are not suited.

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@contrex,

The fact that the woman is physically atractive isn't enough... As visual as men are, it's not enough.. I've been with a girl that was physically perfect..... But she was a dumbell and she just wouldn't do it for me... The first 2-3times it was ok, but after that, forget it... even provocative pics from her that she sent to my phone wouldn't get me going...

Maybe she's not seducing, she doesn't work for it, she doesn't entice him etc...

Or maybe they're not compatible...

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@kittytruelove777,

Quote:

What is that all about?

Beats me.

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Many men enjoy sex with a partner and masturbation; it is not necessary to give up whacking off when entering a relationship.

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@TyrionGuy,

TyrionGuy wrote:

why would it be selfish?

I agree, it wouldn't.

Your answer before was good, and applies to women too.

Sometimes you don't want the whole process that goes with it. You just want to have an orgasm, and get on with your day.

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