Thank you for your answer. Cold feet in what sense? I know she wants to marry me. She's already told me a ton of times... "when we get married" "when we have children" etc etc... I really wanted to marry her a couple years ago when I had to work abroad just to prove to her that being away would only strengthen our relationship.... but refrained from it because I knew that I would only know her well after being with her 24/7...
No, I don't think lack of sex is means for breaking up... but it just means how bad our relationship has got, because we would have sex in wild places when we lived with our parents, and took some risks because we desired eachother so much... now that we have a place and privacy, we should be doing it several times per day... and I'm just not in the mood because of all the fighting and dark cloud above us.
Major differences: Me: I like having a good time with my friends, tell awfull dirty jokes, make a fool out of myself just to make them laugh. I'm extroverted, like to talk loud to be funny, I don't care about what I look like to other people, I don't care what people say about me (i.e. I don't have the need to keep up apearances) and don't like to gossip about other people's lives. I almost never dress formally. A t-shirt, some jeans or baggy pants and a pair of adidas and I'm good to go. I like to keep things simple. At home I like to have my stuff relatively tidy, specially bedroom, living-room and kitchen.
She is the opposite. Introverted, has said in some occasions that my way of clothing has embarrased her, which caused a huge fight. 4 her it's very important to keep up appearances, so she never says or acts like herself, preferring to act acording to what people would like. Never making any waves. Likes to stay classy almost all the time. At home she's never tidy, leaving used tampons in the bathroom sink, leaving bowl after bowl of breakfast on her nightstand - This untidyness really anoys me... and it really annoys her when I call her on it... she gets really pissed.
You bring up a good point. I'm the saver, she's the spender.. she doesn't mind spending all her monthly salary in some useless thing... I believe it's not responsible... We need to save for our future, and our supposed kids... She doesn't seem to grasp that either.
We have our friends and as for that we all get along. No problem there.