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Found a condom

 
 
Reply Mon 11 Aug, 2014 01:48 pm
So my boyfriend and I do not use a condom; found one in a drawer where there wasn't one before. All his time off he spends with me. Do I confront? Thoughts? Initially, I'm quick to call it quits. We've been dating a little over a year. My friends tell me not to break it off. But I will not go there and continue to date someone who is possibly thinking about cheating. My ex did it.
 
CoastalRat
 
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Reply Mon 11 Aug, 2014 01:57 pm
@disenchanted,
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All is time off he spends with them
He spends all his time off with condoms? Weird.

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Do I confront?
Well, you can simply ask him about it. You know, something like "hey, any reason you started keeping condoms around since we don't use them?"

His having this condom could be totally innocent. Maybe he bought some a while back and came across this one the other day and just tossed it in his drawer. You don't know and the only way to ease your mind will be to ask him. Nicely. And in a non-accusatory manner.
disenchanted
 
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Reply Mon 11 Aug, 2014 02:02 pm
@CoastalRat,
Lol...sorry my keyboard sticks at times. Meant spends all time with me.

Yes absolutely I should ask. I just feel if he 'found' them recently, why throw them in the drawer as opposed to throw them out. :\
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 11 Aug, 2014 03:18 pm
@disenchanted,
These are things you should ask him. Hey, you are having sex with this guy and are assuming that you are exclusive. Why don't you have the courage to ask him about it?
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tsarstepan
 
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Reply Mon 11 Aug, 2014 05:45 pm
@disenchanted,
disenchanted wrote:


Yes absolutely I should ask. I just feel if he 'found' them recently, why throw them in the drawer as opposed to throw them out. :\

Are they expired condoms? If not then why throw something out. Maybe he's working up the courage to ask you to let him use them during intercourse because he's not yet ready to be a father and he doesn't trust your current method of contraception.
ehBeth
 
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Reply Mon 11 Aug, 2014 08:31 pm
@disenchanted,
Do you live together?
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 06:43 am
It might not be a condom. It might be the worst chewing gum ever.
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chai2
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 06:54 am
@disenchanted,
disenchanted wrote:

I just feel if he 'found' them recently, why throw them in the drawer as opposed to throw them out. :\



I found some salt packets from a fast food place in the glove compartment of my car, and threw them in a drawer, even though we've got plenty of salt in the house.

Sometimes you just throw something in a drawer.

Yeah, and of course ask him why there are condoms in the drawer. No brainer there.
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 07:09 am
@chai2,
We do that salt, pepper, catsup thing because while we don't need them, they look too substantial to throw away. I'm a Lutheran and a child of the fifties and I bet you are at least a child of the fifties.
Germlat
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 09:32 am
@disenchanted,
It could be an old one...he may not clean out drawers regularly .
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timur
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 09:44 am
I found a condom too:


http://auto.img.v4.skyrock.net/3147/55973147/pics/2272507393_1.jpg
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 09:54 am
@bobsal u1553115,
It doesn't even have to do with the fifties.

Our office moved recently. Our work pod had enough condiment packets to stock a mid-size diner for a few weeks. We left them behind in a couple of large plastic bags - the cleaning team grabbed them.

Only one of us was born in the 50's.
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Romeo Fabulini
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 10:13 am
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Disenchanted said: So my boyfriend and I do not use a condom,,

Why not? Aren't you afraid of the 'B' word ('baby')?
Anyway he might just be keeping it in case you should ever want it; most men keep at least one in a drawer or in their wallet
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roger
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 01:19 pm
@tsarstepan,
tsarstepan wrote:

disenchanted wrote:


Yes absolutely I should ask. I just feel if he 'found' them recently, why throw them in the drawer as opposed to throw them out. :\

Are they expired condoms?


Maybe better to ask if they are second hand.
Germlat
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 03:02 pm
@roger,
Why ask...check the expiration date. If you look in my med cabinet some things have been expired for years Embarrassed
roger
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 03:04 pm
@Germlat,
I was asking about prior use - not expiration date.
Germlat
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 03:15 pm
@roger,
Laughing
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chai2
 
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Reply Tue 12 Aug, 2014 06:10 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
bobsal u1553115 wrote:

We do that salt, pepper, catsup thing because while we don't need them, they look too substantial to throw away. I'm a Lutheran and a child of the fifties and I bet you are at least a child of the fifties.


Tacos (we're not talking the Taco Bell kind) are real big where I live.

Wallette, since moving in with us, has contributed lots of cups of taco sauces of various colors to the butter compartment of the refridgerator.

http://image.shutterstock.com/display_pic_with_logo/426/426,1287661592,7/stock-photo-three-to-go-containers-of-mexican-salsa-from-a-resturant-isolated-on-white-with-room-for-your-63470065.jpg

Now THIS is what we call a taco in Austin....

http://roaminghunger.com/img/trucks/original/4d7b03a3-5f64-4a45-ab30-64c946204482.jpg

http://houston.startupweekend.org/files/2014/04/Torchys-Tacos-htownchowdown.jpg

https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR1pCQe0hLd6EiIU0LBlFSjqopJUmXa_MvoikL1E2Nf9ywXNK8e
bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Wed 13 Aug, 2014 05:05 pm
@chai2,
Ummmm ..... fish tacos at Mariscos!

That's nice photo of a double tortie'd pulled pork taco.

But have you been to Tam Deli on about 8000 N Lamarr? Viet Namese/Saigon food. No condiment packages,though.
chai2
 
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Reply Wed 13 Aug, 2014 06:55 pm
@bobsal u1553115,
I don't usually go that far up on Lamar unless I have business or work up there.

I live right off South Lamar, you know, where La Feria is. That's my street.

Of course that means I'm right near Maria's Taco Express.

http://www.stpaulus.de/Photos/2008/20080314/MariasTacoXpress.jpg

 

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