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My boyfriend sucks at Sex!!!

 
 
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Reply Mon 4 Aug, 2014 05:21 am
@LiveLoughLaugh24,
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Okay so the title says it all. He sucks!!

I think his mind gets the best of him. If I say something a couple times during intercourse he gets soft. He says it's cause it makes him think. If he's tired he does NOT perform well and gets a softee very quickly. I have tried to show him different positions. I have tried to be more romantic and lead up to sex. I have tried dressing up. You name it. Some times it works and sometimes it doesn't but overall he's boring with Sex. Maybe it's cause I've had better. or Maybe I'm too wild and freaky. I don't know. But he fricken sucks at Sex. It's boring.


Have you considered the idea that you're just loose and cheap? "Sluty", some might put it in those terms...

...just sayin'
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Reply Mon 4 Aug, 2014 10:18 pm
@Lash,
Very well said and good point Smile being more positive and patient with him has been helping thankfully. Although, im starting to realize that Im just a highly sexual being. Im not giving up on him though. Im giving it a shot . I think he and us deserve that. So well see what happens. Thanks !
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Reply Mon 4 Aug, 2014 10:20 pm
@FBM,
Thanks for your feedback. Being more positive and patient has been hhelping. Yes, he is a thinker ....a negative one too so if i say too much or say the wrong thing he gets soft . Sad
LiveLoughLaugh24
 
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Reply Mon 4 Aug, 2014 10:23 pm
@engineer,
I think both Sad he has some medical issues but according to his doc nothomg to worry about with his penis. ...
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Reply Mon 4 Aug, 2014 10:27 pm
@Ragman,
Yep im still working on my communication . Guess we all gotta suck at something. I didnt meant to sound so harsh on this blog when i origonally posted it but i needed some where to verbally vent my sexual frustrations..having a talk about what feels good ....or how it feels better ...has helped . I think hes improving slightly ....maybe the problem is that Im too freaky. He finishes once and is ready for bed meanwhile im ready for two three or four Smile
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Reply Mon 4 Aug, 2014 10:29 pm
@panzade,
Very true but i think thats my problem i dont know how to emotiomally let go
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FBM
 
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Reply Tue 5 Aug, 2014 05:49 am
@LiveLoughLaugh24,
LiveLoughLaugh24 wrote:

Thanks for your feedback. Being more positive and patient has been hhelping. Yes, he is a thinker ....a negative one too so if i say too much or say the wrong thing he gets soft . Sad


Years ago, I went through a phase during which I got anxious about going soft during sex. Which made me go soft. It was a vicious cycle for a while, but it passed. Best of luck to you both.
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Reply Thu 27 Nov, 2014 08:59 pm
@Ragman,
I'm not always a good and clear communicator and he sucks at having sex. We are no longer dating. Reflecting on this relationship, I learned and realized that as individuals we were never compatible. In fact, many things he did repelled me. Maybe he felt the same. Maybe that's why it sucked.
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Reply Fri 28 Nov, 2014 05:09 am
@LiveLoughLaugh24,
LiveLoughLaugh24 wrote:

Okay so the title says it all. He sucks!!

I think his mind gets the best of him. If I say something a couple times during intercourse he gets soft. He says it's cause it makes him think. If he's tired he does NOT perform well and gets a softee very quickly. I have tried to show him different positions. I have tried to be more romantic and lead up to sex. I have tried dressing up. You name it. Some times it works and sometimes it doesn't but overall he's boring with Sex. Maybe it's cause I've had better. or Maybe I'm too wild and freaky. I don't know. But he fricken sucks at Sex. It's boring.


Maybe your not the right person for him.
LiveLoughLaugh24
 
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Reply Tue 30 Dec, 2014 04:01 am
@Germlat,
I totally agree. It only took me 7 months to figure that out.
Lesson learned.
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