@JTT,
JTT wrote:
That was people being kind, reluctant to tell you it was simple stupidity.
Whoosh!
im·per·ti·nent
adjective
1.
not showing proper respect; rude.
"an impertinent question"
synonyms: rude, insolent, impolite, ill-mannered, bad-mannered, uncivil, discourteous, disrespectful; More
impudent, cheeky, pert, audacious, bold, brazen, brash, presumptuous, forward;
tactless, undiplomatic;
informalsaucy, sassy, smart-alecky
"impertinent remarks"
antonyms: polite
2.
formal
not pertinent to a particular matter; irrelevant.
"talk of “rhetoric” and “strategy” is impertinent to this process"
synonyms: rude, insolent, impolite, ill-mannered, bad-mannered, uncivil, discourteous, disrespectful; More
impudent, cheeky, pert, audacious, bold, brazen, brash, presumptuous, forward;
tactless, undiplomatic;
informalsaucy, sassy, smart-alecky
"impertinent remarks"
antonyms: polite
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