Hi.. I'm 23 year old male and i'm in oneside love with 18year old female what i do?

Whoa, cowboy, back off from the love talk.

You are attracted to this woman. You perhaps have a crush on her. But love is a different story. God, I really wish people would stop misusing that word.

By the way, when it comes to most people, if you suddenly blurt out that you love them, it rarely goes well. Life's not like the movies.

How about instead just asking this woman out? In the context of liking her. You like her. And that's terrific. Maybe she likes you back. Maybe she only likes you as a friend. You will never know unless you ask, but if you start up immediately with love talk you are going to scare most people away.

Will it affect your 13-year friendship? I guarantee it. Either way, the friendship will be affected. Decide what you want to do, but trying to take it to the next level will change things permanently. Whether that's to good or ill cannot be determined from my chair.

Thanks for replying... I'm confused what to do thats why i ask here... But one thing i want to tell you me and my friend, he's sister are like family we are very closed... I like her from teenage... So as per you, I think i want stop it...

There is nothing wrong with asking her out. Just recognize that it's unlikely that, if she doesn't like you back romantically, that you can go back to a regular friendship.

What jespah has said.

Now i found that she is 3.9yr older than me.. I know her b'day but not year... Now i know the year she born.. She is 19.7 yr old.. I think its normal age gap..?

Whaaat? This afternoon you were 23 years old. Now, at 19 she is 3.9 (3.9years?) older than you. That makes you 15 years old. Much too big an age gap, if I'm following the story.

And it's kind of interesting that he's only now learning the age of someone he's known for 13 years.

Oh, basic mathematics, thou art a bitch.

I was confused in year.. I think no one ask to girl whats ur age or that thing... Now i think to asking this question here is my mistake it doesn't solved but it become complicated for me...

I think she knows my feelings.... Because from 1yr she doesn't call me bro... She call me by name... She chat with me very much time on whats app at night.. I think she have some feelings about me but she is not tell me that... She also talk with me romantically many times...

How old are you?

If you are 23 - and she is 3.9 years older than you (how do you get such a weird number?) - she is nearly 27.

If at 27, you think she is an 18 year old, she must be quite immature.

If she is actually 18, that makes you a 14 y.o. - which makes the age gap a problem.

seriously!

if he can't tell the difference between a 5 year-old and a 13 year old (the ages she might have been when they first met) ... there's a bigger problem

I want to clear here my birth date is 8-12-1990 and she's birth date is 7-6-1994..

Obviously you made a mistake when you said she was older...and I think these people all realize that...but the need to treat others like a dummy is strong here.

Ask her out for something as innocuous as possible in your culture. If she says, "yes"...great. You will soon find out if there is a connection that is more than friendship. If she says "no"...there will be no romantic connection.

Either way...the friendship MAY be effected.

Just one of the things you will have to face in life.

Ok, let's do the math Einstein.

You are 23, almost 24.
She just turned 20.

You were ok with her being 18, and there was a almost 6 year gap, but now you're questioning a 4 year gap.

It's too early in the morning for this foolishness.

you don't tell her anything at this point

you ask her out - for tea or coffee or a cold drink
you ask her out - for a walk in a park or by the sea

you get to know each other one-on-one, in person, not on-line or through apps

you talk to her - not about love or romance yet

just spend time with her in person - and talk to her - about books and birds and movies and sports and other general stuff - find out what interests her

once you know each other a bit better, you will get a sense of whether you are both attracted to each other - then try dating