@chai2,
Yes it goes both ways, I'm not denying that. The problem is both men and women buy into the fantasy. How many young girls read Cosmo? Or other magazines of photoshopped and airbrushed actors and actresses? Or men who read weight training magazines telling them "women like big chest and arms." So while the top looks nice, the legs are skinny so men create disproportionate figures all because of a magazine.