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Why will a girl say she cant date you & yet she says she doesn't av a reason why she cant date U.

 
 
Reply Sun 22 Jun, 2014 05:46 pm
There's this girl have been trying to date since last month bt she's always saying she cant date me bt if i ask her why she cant date me,her next reply is always that she has no reason.
Does it mean she's interested bt she's just trying to hide her interest or she's nt even interested at all?.....cos i dont know why a girl will say she cant date u & yet she doesnt av a reason why she cant date u.
 
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jun, 2014 05:59 pm
@luukasztim,
luukasztim wrote:
she's nt even interested at all?


her reason is that she's not interested

at all
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SteveJackson
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jun, 2014 09:12 pm
@luukasztim,
She's not that into you. Just move on and soon you'll find the right girl for you. Enjoy life and do something that makes you happy and busy.
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jespah
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jun, 2014 09:22 pm
@luukasztim,
She is under no obligation whatsoever to provide you with a reason.
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bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jun, 2014 10:34 pm
No means no should be plenty good enough.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 10:53 am
@luukasztim,
Quote:
Does it mean she's interested bt she's just trying to hide her interest
Yeah, that's it. You are so very irresistible that she is refusing to go out with you in order to hide the fact that she is madly in love with you.
roger
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 01:17 pm
@CoastalRat,
Obviously. She's playing 'hard to get', and it seems to be working. Step up your campaign.
Buttermilk
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 01:48 pm
A lot of women are confused, just look at the responses to the Jeremy Meeks guy...
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 02:27 pm
Does she date ANYONE? Perhaps she is promised to another. Perhaps her parents won't let her date at all.

You haven't given a lot of info, but if she has turned you down, then you need to accept that.

bobsal u1553115
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 03:08 pm
@roger,
Right on, restraining orders are just a joke!
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Romeo Fabulini
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 03:12 pm
Most young girls are airheads, they don't know what they want and nor does anybody else..Smile
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luukasztim
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 03:42 pm
@PUNKEY,
Not at all & infact she's a specialist at saying "NO" to guys,she has done it to most guys who make advances towards her.
chai2
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 03:46 pm
@Buttermilk,
Buttermilk wrote:

A lot of women are confused, just look at the responses to the Jeremy Meeks guy...


yar, nothing says "I'd go out with him" more than dreamy eyes and gang ink on the neck. Rolling Eyes
jespah
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 05:55 pm
@luukasztim,
Perhaps she's got high standards. Maybe she's a lesbian. Maybe she wants to concentrate on being single, or having a career, or school, or whatever she's doing. Maybe she thinks all the guys in area are jerks. Maybe she's got 6 months to live. Maybe you all have cooties.
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Buttermilk
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 06:40 pm
@chai2,
LOL but chai, maybe not you but when I read stuff like "I'll let him rape my vagina" there is something off. I can't believe tens of thousands wanna bail this felon out.
chai2
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jun, 2014 06:54 pm
@Buttermilk,
Oh yeah, I believe it.

So many women, especially young women (girls really) see a pretty face and that's all she wrote.

I was like that in my teen years, when mainly I just looked and swooned.

Fortunatley for me (in a weird way I guess) the first man I was involved with, lived with for a few years happened to be quite handsome. Maybe even more than that Jeremy guy. You quickly get used to how someone looks, and it doesn't matter at all after awhile. He put on his pants one leg at a time, the same as everyone else. Look at the rock stars and actors that have a few years on them now. We all age and get funny looking.

In more recent times I've come across pictures of guys I knew from way back in high school.
Believe me, you wouldn't pick many of them out of a crowd today. Very Happy
You wouldn't pick me out either.

I still have plenty of jois de vivre.
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Finn dAbuzz
 
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Reply Tue 24 Jun, 2014 05:05 pm
@luukasztim,
It means she is not interested and she is probably too nice to say why because it may hurt your feelings. If you keep bugging her she may feel she has no choice and you will end up with hurt feelings.

You don't want to end up with hurt feelings.

Move on and leave her alone.

Look, obviously you are attracted to this girl and like her, but for whatever reason the feeling isn't mutual. That sucks, but it happens, and really, bugging her is not going to change anything. You're wasting your time and you're probably making her uncomfortable.

Guys are coming to this forum all the time and asking if the girl who has refused to date them on multiple occasions might just be playing hard to get.

I'm not a woman, but I live in a house with one and am frequently visited by another (my daughter), and my experience is that girls play hard to get with guys who they think are a little too full of themselves, who originally approached the girl with a little bit too much certainty that she would say yes. The girl likes the guy but she doesn't want him to think he's doing her a favor by asking him out, so she makes him work; she plays hard to get.

This is just one of the little mind games girls, and boys; women and men play at the beginning of a relationship

There is nothing in what you wrote to suggest that you are a little too full of yourself, or that she likes you but wants to take you down a peg first, but if, by some chance, she is playing hard to get, then the best thing you can do is stop asking her out and act you don't care anymore. The girls who play hard to get, want to eventually be gotten, but on their terms. If she does like you and she thinks you've spit out hook, she'll make her interest known in some way; pretty quickly.

Seriously though, I wouldn't count on this, and if you don't get a clear sign (not her saying hello to you or looking at you) in a couple of days, you'll know that she really isn't interested.
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