You met a woman "two weeks ago"..
She was married for 11 years.
She met him when she was 22.
Her husband wants to work it out.
She told you she is not seeing you this weekend, she wants a clear mind, "it's going to be difficult, emotional..." Decisions... This is "hard".
You accuse her of cheating.. Yet she separated. That's not cheating, she separated what she chose/chooses to do when in a separation is her choice..
You relationship is "lust time" two weeks , not enough to get to know her, her mind, her past 11 years, her body, anything really, well maybe a little on her body. You say it was a "hot" start.
A lot of marriages end up in a friendship zone because people forget to work it.. He wants to, she remembers being 22 and 32.. Not much.. She'll give him another go "unless he's a real jerk" all she has had with you over two weeks is hot sex.
She did tell you....." this is hard"..
Does she go for hot sex, desire, passion and conversation or try to work her marriage out now that he wishes to try.
I'm still separated, 4.5 years later . I'm engaged. And I'm not cheating.. Though I do joke that I'm living in sin, well it's not a joke I am.
Give her breathing space you are thinking "I think" with thy small head.
Otherwise you'd be stating she is such a lovely lady inside and out, not " thinking about how you've read why women cheat". But then how can you think differently after only 14 days.