I'm 16 and I want to be gay?

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Hi I always imagine me marrying a man and having a intimate relationship with him I've had Homosexual encounters with my friend when I was young I have never had sex with a woman and I see guys in public and I think in my head how hot they are, i like guys 90% more than i do females if a pretty girl and a handsome man walks in the room i would talk to the guy first,I always imagine me moving to a different state and being gay there after I graduate I rarely look at regular porn I always look a gay porn I don't know I just need someone to talk to about this someone please tell me what's going on I don't act gay neither just please tell me what's going on people say I should wait but I think I'm gay now I just need advice please help

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[+4] - jespah - 05/29/2014Let's start with the basics. [list=1][*]Human sexuality is a spectrum. A lot of people are attracted, to some extent, to both genders. This isn't necessarily the desire to have sex with them. It's...

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Let's start with the basics.

Human sexuality is a spectrum. A lot of people are attracted, to some extent, to both genders. This isn't necessarily the desire to have sex with them. It's more like friendship, affection, or admiration in most cases. Enjoying someone's company, or even thinking they are attractive, does not necessarily imply now or future sexual desire.
There's no specific way of 'acting gay'. There is no gay handbook. Some women who like to fix cars are straight. Some women who like to wear feminine dresses are gay. Some women in committed, monogamous relationships are bi. It is, as I said, a spectrum. Some of your behaviors, falling into one norm or another, will not define your sexuality.
Porn viewing, or what porn you view, or whether you view porn at all, does not necessarily define things, either.
People in your age group tend to be in an experimentation phase. And that's not just with sexuality. It's also with clothes, studies, religion, etc. Having questions is pretty damned natural.
Wanting to be gay works about as well as wanting to be straight, or wanting to be Lithuanian. At this point, I suspect that (a) you are unsure and (b ), you are thinking that it has to be all or nothing. It doesn't have to be.

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Sounds like you're gay! Hooray for you. I guess you know it probably won't be easy, but you sound positive about it - and that is so important.

I guess you want to move so friends and family won't know you're gay? Hopefully, after you have some time living openly gay in a "safer" environment, maybe you'll feel confident enough to open up about it with family.

There are a lot of gay-friendly peeps here. Feel free to ask specific questions or just come here for support. Smile

(PS - Jespah is probably right. You may just be a dude-leaning bi guy or just curious, but I'm betting my paycheck you're gay Smile

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@drewilliams23,

I just must to tell you... THERE IS NOT 'GAY-ACTING', If you mean on Fem acting then its ok, There is a gay guys who dont act like females.. Feminized.. if u get me... Im the one :3

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