Abelm
 
Reply Tue 20 May, 2014 01:14 pm
I'm a 37 year old guy I can't go up to womens if I see a pretty women I want to go up to them but I get so nervous and shy. What can I do about that?
 
jespah
 
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Reply Tue 20 May, 2014 02:17 pm
@Abelm,
Start talking to everyone you see. Men, women, kids. Nothing big, nothing heavy.

Just things like -
  • Nice weather we're having
  • Does this bus stop at ___?
  • Is your dog friendly?
  • Do you know any good Chinese restaurants around here?


Obviously, tailor it to the circumstances and make up any number of other light tidbits of conversation. These are meant to be short and sweet; you're not proposing marriage to these people. And with children, don't talk to them unless you're also in the presence of their parents.

The idea here is to get used to breaking the ice and talking to your fellow humans. This doesn't cure all forms of shyness, of course, but it does help you to improve at striking up conversations.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2014 07:18 am
Is it just pretty women that make you fold up - or is it all women?
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