Two Girls

I do hope you're using condoms.

Now that that's out of the way, seriously, you aren't doing the gal in Chandler any favors by sleeping with someone else all the time. I'm not saying that you need to be exclusive or even nice, but just make your expectations clear up front. Right now, you're just being deceptive with both of them. Shouldn't the Chandler gal have the chance to sleep with someone else, too?

Is there some law you can't date 2 people at the same time?

Don't leave your phone where anyone can look at it.

as chai said, no law says you can't date two girls, i'm guessing however that one or the other might feel differently

and as for the phone, if you can't keep anything else in your pants, make sure you keep it tucked away

If you're not dating exclusively, why should they?

Tell them both what's going on. You're dating, not engaged (I hope).

No need to give anyone the idea that you're dating only one person (that is soooo 1950's)

Who knows what the other girls are doing anyway.

Hey Yuma, are you so sure they aren't seeing other people as well?

At 19 you're not supposed to be in a committed relationship. It's time for you to date, have fun, experience life without hurting others.


Re not knowing if they are seeing others....years ago, when I was living with this guy, he asked me if I'd ever consider a threesome.

I thought for a moment, and said "Maybe. But only if I got to pick the other guy."

The other GUY???!!!!

He never brought up the subject again.

I thought a friend of his was really hot, and I was vaguely dissapointed.

Jesus ehBeth, since you've been channeling me, I feel like I can't have a good rant.

<I will step aside quietly>

As has been said, it works both ways, for all you know the girls could have other boyfriends/lovers.
In that scenario I wonder what you are, looks or personality?.

Anyhow, as previously advised, just as long as everybody involved are wearing condoms, no harm....

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her, then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart,
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

Say man.
Hey baby.
I saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Man, she's ugly but she sure can cook, baby.
Yeah? Alright...

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

. . . .
Jimmy Soul

One thing I am learning in all this , is to be certain to look at their names before I hit send, I sent the wrong text to Anna tonight, only good part was it did not sound sexual. And I blew it off as borrowing a Xbox game. I do thank you all for your replies, I appreciate your help in making a decision.

The one in Yuma might be as far as I know, but the one in chandler is not that type of girl.

I’m so excited that I get to see the one in chandler this Friday, and matters how it goes I will decide on my future.

you're 19. unless Ms. Chandler gets pregnant this weekend, you will not be deciding your future. Maybe the future few months.

Way to go Casanova.

So, you've got the whole virgin/whore fantasy going on, huh?

Dating more than one person doesn't make you "that kind of girl", and what about you?

You must be "that kind of guy"

I am not sure what we can give you in tips as members of this forum regarding "security" you don't already know as a Marine. I think you're bragging. Chandler, eh? How would your Bishop feel about this?

I think you might just be bragging. Something to think about: what makes you think you're so slick they aren't hitting it, too?

What is worse than a pretty woman....a very handsome man who knows it.
They tend to be insufferable.

Of course, there are some good looking men who don't think they are.