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She's larger than life.

 
 
SMickey
 
Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:16 am
I chanced to hear someone describe a girl, and some expressions were used such as 'larger than life.'

If you were described as a person who is larger than life, how would you feel? Is that sort of a compliment?

As far as I know, 'being larger than life' is, kind of, 'being cheerful and energetic', which sounds positive. Do I understand it right?

I'd appreciate your comment.
Thank you.

 
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chai2
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:30 am
@SMickey,
I would not take it as a compliment.

It means that the person thinks or acts like their lives are more exciting and better than us mere mortals.

It's kind of a back handed compliment.


Here's a video that captures that....

Ragman
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:43 am
@SMickey,
I'm a positive person so I'd take it as a compliment and then smile at the person who says it to me.
chai2
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:47 am
@Ragman,
So, you're saying I'm not a positive person? Wink


Ragman
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:48 am
@chai2,
Umm...moi? Ne-VER!

Honestly, I used to be more negative. It was how I was brought up - or taking my responsibility -- it's what I let myself gravitate towards. I keep seeing that edge sneak in my (and others) every day life and I try to shape what I see and feel coming at me. It is veritable a plague, I tell 'ya!
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:56 am
@SMickey,
I understand it as a compliment - and I definitely mean it as a compliment.

I take it as a person who is positive, appreciates things in their life, tries to grab all the fun, positive things in life to do, is good to others.

I like to have larger than life people in my life.
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contrex
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 08:57 am
Many people use 'larger than life' to mean 'more interesting and more exciting than an ordinary person', which surely is a compliment.
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dalehileman
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 10:35 am
@chai2,
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It's kind of a back handed compliment.
Might be so Chai in many cases but the term has a more general meaning

https://www.google.ca/#q=define+larger+than+life+personality

Also see Con above
chai2
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 10:57 am
@dalehileman,
You know, I've done some thinking, and I realize where I came up with the negative connotation.....from myself and my past.

Back in the day, oh, 27 years ago, when I drank alcoholically, I thought I was larger than life. Inflated sense of importance, etc.
When I stopped drinking, I realized being part of the human race, and having a "regular size life" was much happier.

Plus, for me personally, being around people who are larger than life is quite tiring and stressful.
dalehileman
 
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Reply Sun 18 May, 2014 11:16 am
@chai2,
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negative connotation.....from myself and my past.
Yea Chai, we all do it

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…..27 years ago, when I drank alcoholically,
With me, 43 years ago

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…...Inflated sense of importance, etc.
In my own case probably to escape life's burdens

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When I stopped drinking, …..was much happier.
Mine too although I attribute any gain in this respect to getting a Better Half who takes over almost all decision-making

I'd cut down to only 1.14 12-oz bottles a day; still with a slight long-term anxiety, fortunately easily relieved by an occasional dose of 5-htp

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Plus, for me personally, being around people who are larger than life is quite tiring and stressful.
You're by no means alone Chai
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SMickey
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2014 01:37 pm
@chai2,
It's so nice of you to show me a moving clip. Thanks.
SMickey
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2014 01:40 pm
@Ragman,
Thank you. Now I don't have to hesitate to desribe someone as 'larger than life' thanks to you.
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SMickey
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2014 01:42 pm
@dalehileman,
The link you suggested clearly shows that the expression can be used as a compliment. Thanks.
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chai2
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2014 01:43 pm
@SMickey,
SMickey wrote:

It's so nice of you to show me a moving clip. Thanks.


FYI, we would call it a "video", not a "moving clip"

One other thing....

We might say "did you see that clip?", but a clip means a segment, ususally small, of a larger video.

Since what I posted was an entire song, it was a video.

I don't think anyone would ever include the word "moving" in there.
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