I need answer quickly.

Ill get back to you on this, I have to feed my juncos.

Why would you choose to be in a relationship where you can't trust each other? He can't trust that you won't go snooping through his stuff on false pretenses and you can't trust that he will be faithful to you on Facebook.

What kind of relationship is that?

This relationship is doomed; it will fly apart because of your jealousy and his inability to commit or forget his ex. (Maybe she didn't check his laptop all the time?). It doesn't matter what you do or don't do.

Two things in this post that bothered me:


1) In his PRIVATE facebook account you told him to BLOCK someone without telling this forum the reasoning behind why you wanted him to block her.

2) You SNOOPED in his laptop when he wasn't there and looked into his history. If you knew it was wrong to look why do it?

3) Sounds like you have some insecurity and trust issues.

That was always what bothered me about women and social media, women try to run someone else's privacy. No offense but you have no right to determine who can he block on his private account especially if you recently broke up and recently reinstated your relationship.

Obviously he established a relationship with someone before you, and if cheating is your concern, blocking someone on social media wont prevent it from happening.

Not only did she snoop, she wants to lie about it.

I think she falls into the catagory of pycho girl.

Linsa, with all due respect you aren't reading what you are writing.

I told him to block his ex, he did, then we broke up then after a couple of days got back.

What do you think the message for you was there, with the break up?

I told him to block his ex, he did, now I found he un-blocked her and visited her page a lot yesterday..

Again, what does that tell you?

No point telling him what you found, he's trying to establish if he should go back to his ex.

Snooping is a major reason for break-ups - you are invading someone else's privacy and yes, usually due to your own in-securities ...