help me with a female

Don't bother.

Why?

She said not to bother. That sounds like a complete lack of interest so you would end up spinning your wheels and going exactly nowhere. She will probably tell all her friends.

But you don't know our history she does this but I don't message her for ages,then she comes back to me but its my turn to go back to her ,just don't know how long to leave it

Oh goodie, you gave us nothing. How old are the two of you?

I'm 37 and shes 36

Propose to her and get married already.

You get excitement out of hurting people? Playing cruel games with their heads.((Obviously.)) You're not too good of a person.

Well, you are right. Nobody here knows anything about your history unless you choose to share it. "Don't bother" sounds like she is bored, and that's way worse than anger.

You don't know me at all how am I playing with her head? If i love her

You make no sense with the words you just shared in response to my post.

She's not bored,she's been hurt in the past by men ,she expects every man now to hurt her,unfortunately I'm the one who wont hurt her but im but im on the recieving end of her insecuritys

Do I offend you? Not my intent. But when a decent man severely hurts a woman as I've been, as you may be a decent man, I've no sympathy for like people. I mean understand I'm not angry/upset/or like feelings as I once had been. I'm completely over it. Forgave and all. Just waiting for my psychological problem to be fixed Monday I hope.

Good possibilty your woman may be extremely simple minded. She should forgive you in no time. Be extremely loving, sensitive toward her, reveal your vulnerability which I know is not/will not be hard at all for you to do with her, and what not.

I am a good bloke I don't cheat on woman or intentionally hurt them,ive been cheated on in the past,it hurts this is why I dont do it,im sorry you've been hurt I share your feelings,all I want is to be happy,she makes me happy I fell for her big style

P.s you didn't offend me

I wish you the best. I really do, being said sincerely.

Thankyou that means a lot ,I don't think we can go any further but all ive got is hope and if we lose hope what have we got?

There was never anything.

But the result of the future has a lot to do with a healthy mind.

What did you do to piss her off?

Do what you want to do, not what you "think" others expect.

If she is in-secure, each day that passes will make it worse and frankly at 36 and 37 neither of you should be playing games.

Wow wow wow,how old are you,bet your only still young,37 isn't old there's plenty of time left in the old dog yet believe me lol what did I do to piss her off basically I love her,but she thinks I've been chatting to other woman,I stood p for myself and now she's,pissed