Do I offend you? Not my intent. But when a decent man severely hurts a woman as I've been, as you may be a decent man, I've no sympathy for like people. I mean understand I'm not angry/upset/or like feelings as I once had been. I'm completely over it. Forgave and all. Just waiting for my psychological problem to be fixed Monday I hope.
Good possibilty your woman may be extremely simple minded. She should forgive you in no time. Be extremely loving, sensitive toward her, reveal your vulnerability which I know is not/will not be hard at all for you to do with her, and what not.