@Buttermilk,
Sorry but you or the news media should not get to sit in judgement of the man for such factors as him being disloyal to his wife.
At least half of the US presidents and some of the great ones was not loyal husbands.
Hell two of our major founding fathers cheated on their wives. We might still be part of the UK if is was not for Benjamin Franklin who one day show up with a son he had father out of wedlock for his wife to raised and Hamilton who set up the banking system of the US was found to had cheated on his wife.
In his public life Stirling had won one award from the NAACP and was schedule in a few months to be awarded another one from the NAACP.
It had gotten so crazy that on this thread someone had attacked him for giving a thousand free tickets to poor black school children.
His outlook on life is not one that I share still once more it hardly reach the level of taking away his property no matter how hard you are looking for excuses to do so.