Was she trying to flirt with him? What does this mean?

Investigate for a while, but secretly. You should discover the answers for your concerns soon.

Only she knows what she meant by it. You can either ask her about it or you can just assume it was just a friendly comment unless or until you see other signs that she isn't as sold on you as you are on her.

Only do this if you want to break up. This is a major league invasion of privacy and a clear sign of mistrust.

She is untrue to you. Test her more to discover if she truly loves you. I'm sure she does and that she was simply complimenting the guy.

You shouldn't worry.

She loves you. But take control before you lose her to her ignorance.



I never stated the above mentioned to anyone unless out of my ignorance. I didn't mean it in that way.

My cover up for her.

I agree with this. In fact I think the whole deleting of the facebook was a bad sign. It can cause problems later down the road. I think flirting is not a bad thing, in fact it can be a compliment in a way. If she wants to be with you and is "loyal" to you but flirts, that is not a bad thing.

The facebook issue is something she is trying to bury but ultimately there will come a time when she regrets doing that and it will cause a problem. For example what happens if she one day reinstates it? It will piss you off because you'll wonder why she did that. No amount of explaining will make you feel better about it.

I think the more compromises in a relationship the more tense the relationship becomes. A lot of people want to ignore this fact. As soon as one problem arises these compromises are often abandoned which lead to additional problems. I say make the fewest compromises as possible and the relationship will be much more healthy and pleasant.

Ask her!!!

I'd be suspicious of a friend who communicates with my girl/boyfriend, suggests she might be flirting and then urges you to spy on her phone. If she isn't flirting, she's going to be pissed at you for going thru her phone.

We're talking about a 6 week relationship, it's not a 10 year marriage with 3 kids.

Lmfao! True (Sidenote my friend never replied back to her.) I'm not planing to go through her phone. I might ask but i dont know

I would be suspicious too. The op wrote she didn't like it...Did she tell him that? Something isn't right about this story.

Whats wrong with the story? She said she didnt like when guys messaged her, when they knew we were going out. The day we starting going out she changes her relationship status, but guys still kept talking to her. She told me this and on her own (without me telling her) she deleted her facebook and was happy about it. So i didnt force her to delete it. Plus my girl and friend are close friends and text each other it doesn't bother me, untill my friend called me. and send me that screen shot. Anything else you want me to clear up???

Really?

"We're talking about a 6 week relationship, it's not a 10 year marriage with 3 kids." I found that funny. He's right and i could be overreacting!

That right the best way is to keep it secret to find more clues to add up. Saying something will let her think you don't trust her if what you're thinking is not so.

I'm not a he, I'm a she, and as crazy as this might sound, men flirt with married women and vise versa. It makes me uncomfortable, and your pal is fomenting unrest. I think you should step back and check his motives. If he's supposed to be her pal as well as yours, why is he making it seem she is untrustworthy. It doesn't pass the smell test.

It could mean anything. The best way to know is to ask her.