No idea what she is thinking?

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I went out with a girl who had a hard break-up over a year ago. She's a friend of my sister and I know her but we hadn't really spoken. She hinted to my sister to get a date so I jumped at the chance.

Anyway first date casual drinks conversation went great at the end of the night we both started kissing not once but over and over in a bar. We got a taxi together I told her I'd call in 15 minutes to make sure she got home ok which she appreciated.

Following morning got a text saying she'd had a great time we text all day all good so far. She was out with a friend and so was I that night I told her if she wanted to meet up just get in touch. It never happened but didn't think too much she was out with a girlfriend non dramas. Got a text again first thing the following morning asking how my night was all good.

Now the mind games. We agreed when she was a bit drunk on going out the following day so I dropped it into a text no reply for 5-6 hours. So I text her back saying we could leave it and go out later that week. She said she was looking at dating but nothing serious? So I said I was happy to just see how things go she reciprocated that sentiment. So she said we could do later that week but didn't get a reply again. I'm not sure how to proceed she's interested then backs of?

Any ideas? I'm thinking maybe she did more than expected on the first date? Maybe she like me and the thought of her past heartbreak has caused her to back off a little. I'm pretty certain she likes me why would she kiss me first date and tell me how great a time she had? Is she wanted me to pursue her more or should I back off? I haven't a clue? You women are strange creatures?

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[+3] - jespah - 04/07/2014[quote="BadNews"].... Now the mind games. We agreed when she was a bit drunk on going out the following day so I dropped it into a text no reply for 5-6 hours. So I text her back...

@BadNews,

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Now the mind games. We agreed when she was a bit drunk on going out the following day so I dropped it into a text no reply for 5-6 hours. So I text her back saying we could leave it and go out later that week. She said she was looking at dating but nothing serious? So I said I was happy to just see how things go she reciprocated that sentiment. So she said we could do later that week but didn't get a reply again. I'm not sure how to proceed she's interested then backs of?...

This isn't a mind game. She said "she was looking at dating but nothing serious". That's all. So don't hang on every text. Go out and have a life. She'll respond when she wants to and not before. And, in the meantime, ask her out again! And ask other women out. This is not an exclusive relationship. Hell, it's not a relationship at this stage.

Live your life.

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Stop trying to develop this relationship by texting!

Don't move so fast. She is probably not ready for kissy face and because she was drinking, things happened that maybe she wasn't ready for.

Do this sober, without alcohol. Forget the "date" - just take her for coffee in the afternoon.

PS - watch the drinking - one both of your parts. That's no way to start a relationship.

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@BadNews,

How about giving her some space.

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@BadNews,

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I went out with a girl who had a hard break-up over a year ago. She's a friend of my sister and I know her but we hadn't really spoken. She hinted to my sister to get a date so I jumped at the chance.

Anyway first date casual drinks conversation went great at the end of the night we both started kissing not once but over and over in a bar. We got a taxi together I told her I'd call in 15 minutes to make sure she got home ok which she appreciated.

Following morning got a text saying she'd had a great time we text all day all good so far. She was out with a friend and so was I that night I told her if she wanted to meet up just get in touch. It never happened but didn't think too much she was out with a girlfriend non dramas. Got a text again first thing the following morning asking how my night was all good.

Now the mind games. We agreed when she was a bit drunk on going out the following day so I dropped it into a text no reply for 5-6 hours. So I text her back saying we could leave it and go out later that week. She said she was looking at dating but nothing serious? So I said I was happy to just see how things go she reciprocated that sentiment. So she said we could do later that week but didn't get a reply again. I'm not sure how to proceed she's interested then backs of?

Any ideas? I'm thinking maybe she did more than expected on the first date? Maybe she like me and the thought of her past heartbreak has caused her to back off a little. I'm pretty certain she likes me why would she kiss me first date and tell me how great a time she had? Is she wanted me to pursue her more or should I back off? I haven't a clue? You women are strange creatures?

Sounds like to me she has other prospects on the side. If she says she is only interested in dating, it means there are other guys she is seeing as well.

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@BadNews,

You were a bad kisser! Haha. I'm not serious. There is really no telling. I'm glad I don't have to worry about the dating scene. First chance I take to leave here, I'm dead. So yeah. Try living that life. To get back on topic. Hmm. Well. I personally am not much for the mind game ****. I'm a do it immediately kind of person with who I feel is the right person. My big mistake was not maturing as quickly as I should had because now I'm suffering one overwhelming mental hell that I feel is unnecessary. At the same time I feel it is the Lord's way of guiding me to maturity. He won't give you more than you can handle. I'm keeping my trust and faith in the Lord. God and Jesus Christ both. This situation is difficult.

With how you worded your original post seems to me you're a frequent mind game playing individual. So in all honesty how are we to know you're being truthful with what you say. And if what you mentioned is true then very good possibility you were not a good kisser. How often did you stick your tongue in her mouth. Her yours. When you stuck your tongue in her mouth how did you operate it. Did you touch her tongue. Did you move your tongue wildly in her mouth. Did you touch the inside of her cheek. Did you massage her tongue with yours. How often did you stick your tongue in her mouth.
I personally am crazy with my tongue. I move that thing all over the place. In the mouth, on the body. In the body. In that ass. You name it.

:sincere happy smile:

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@BadNews,

She could secretly be in love with you but she's afraid of how you would react to her feelings so she's keeping her distance.

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@anonymously99,

very good possibility.

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