Wife does not respect me. On verge of ending relationship.

Michael and Daisy met 6 years ago and became good friends.
after 4 months Daisy moved to another city and Michael also joined the same organization to be with her within 3 months.
after 3 years of courtship they decide to get married.
it was tough for Daisy to get her parents approval, but they managed.
Immediately after marraige, they move into same organization to anothe major city. invest all their savings in a European honeymoon trip.
They own a car, stay in a rented apartment near to office and travel together. both earn good and do whatever they feel like, support each other in what they want.
After one year of marriage they both invest in buying a house as well, for which they would get possession after 5 yrs.

Michael is a person who doesnt dream big, is hard working but is little laid back and is mostly satisfied with the life.
At one side he always complaint about Daisy buying big brands and spending more than required (which is againts his nature), but same time he also gives her credit to make him chase more in life.
Had Daisy not been in his life, he might not have bought a car for another one year, would have not spent much on a foreign trip and would not have thought of buying a house for 2 yrs.
Michael calls Daisy the drive of his life.

Daisy is a person with big dreams. She always tries to achieve more and more and is a fighter. She is great communicator with impressive personality and also believes in little show-off to friends.
At one side she always complaints about Michael not being forward to things, but same time she also gives credit to Michael for being the matured partner who evaluates the risk and helps her take the right decisions.
She feels Michael always supports her and gives her confidence in all situations.

On a scale of 10, Michael is 7 good in career and Daisy is 8 good in career.

8 months of marraige, at this point in life, Michael and Daisy are very happy and dont need anything else from life.
9th month, Daisy shares her dream with Michael that she wants to live abroad for few years or may be settle permanently. She says this is the biggest dream of her life.
Michael is very satisfied with current life and as per his nature he initially hesitates but seeing her desperation and growth opportunity in their career, they decide to give it a try for few years.

Initially they decide that Michael would find a job abroad first and Daisy would follow. Michael tries for 8 months in diferent directions and possibilities but no success.
meanwhile, Daisy also tries and suddenly finds a project abroad.
This is how Michael and Daisy evaluated the opportunity :
Accepting this means, Michael and Daisy would have to stay apart till the time Michael also finds a job himself in vicinity. It can take any number of months. if he is not able to find Daisy can anytime come back and retain her job.
Refusing means, they might have to give up hope of staying abroad.
Michael initially leaves the decision to accept the offer on Daisy because he wants her to decide her comfort levels and priorities, but he assures her that he will support her in any case.
As the deadline to accept approaches, Michael accepts his failure to find an opportunity himself and advises Daisy to accept it because they both see this as the only possibility to make the dream come true.
Michael feels if he cannot make Daisy´s dream true himself, he would support her to any extent when she has found the option herself.

After 1.9 yrs of marriage, Daisy moves to Europe. They both decide that Michael would try to find a job for 6-8 months or otherwise she would come back. In any case they would try to meet every 3-4 months.

This is their life for next 6 months :
Michael : Michael continues in same job abd keeps trying to find a job in Europe. He immediately understand the need of personal growth to achieve it.
Within few months he works a lot on improving his skill set and also starts learning a european language.
First time out of couple life, he also understand the impotance of a social life (this is also a complaint of Daisy that he is not much social and doesnt have friends) and occassionally starts hanging out with male colleagues.

Daisy : First time working on a client site, Daisy is very happy professionally. She finds a very helpful senior colleague Alex who helps her extra mile to make her adjust in the tough demanding environment.
Daisy also finds a very good friend in him and being new in the city, starts occassionally hanging out with him. Alex is struggling in his personal life and is planning to divorce his wife.
Daisy becomes sympathatic towards him and provides him emotional support as a good friend. She also goes extra mile and talks to his parents and wife to help him.

Michael and Daisy both miss each other and decide to meet after 3 months of initially staying seperate. Michael visits Daisy in Europe.
On the trip Michael notices that Daisy is on phone with Alex too frequently even when on holiday and doesnt like her giving details to him about stuff like where she is, what she is doing, what she ate etc.
He complaints to Daisy and she expalins that its casual. They have few fights on this on the trip.
On the visit, Michael gets to know that Alex has a issue in her family where his wife accuses him of being in an affair with Daisy, as all of a sudden his bevaiour towards his wife has changed a lot.
Michael also reads an email sent to Alex's wife by someone unknown who warns her of a possible affair between Daisy and Alex. Daisy and Alex explain that it is out of jealousy of their friendship.
Michael also gets to know that Alex has written some praises to Daisy in a personal message. Also Daisy to Alex that she misses him.
Michael talked to his wife Daisy and trusts her that it is in a good friendship way. Michael talks to Alex's wife and tries to convince her that he feels everything is normal.

Michael has a serious talk with Daisy and advises her that Alex is in hope of a relationship with Daisy and she should take care and not discuss anything beyond profession with him.
He advises her not to provide soft shoulder to him as it would fuel his emotions. He shares his worry about the situation.
Daisy understands and agrees to follow his advise.

After 3 months Daisy visits Michael. Everything is fine except that Michael is bothered with Daisy talking to Alex frequently.
He doesnt like it but since he trusts Daisy, he frowns but doenst say much. They do have occasional fights with Daisy complaining that he is overreacting.
In another incident Michael notices that Daisy always deletes Alex's chats and when he asks for reason Daisy tells him that even their parents dont like her talking to Alex, so she is hiding it from them.
While Daisy is returning back, Michael and Daisy have big fight due to same issue and Daisy promises (swears oh Michael head) that she will not talk with Alex as it hurts Michael.
Daisy goes back and within few days she meets Alex and talks to his parents because they are very worried. His parents tells her that Alex wants to be with her and is breaking his marriage.
Daisy tries to hide this from Michael but he gets to know (as Daisy was avoiding talking to him at that time and she admits after questioning) and they have a huge fight as she did not keep her promise.
Michael is fed up of fights and convinces himself that he should trust Daisy and decides not to question her again.

After 3 months Michael again visits Daisy. This time he doesnt want to meet Alex. Michael and Daisy have a fight on this as Daisy considers Alex to be a good friend and takes it as an insult for Alex.
One day Alex suddenly visits Michael and Daisy at home because Daisy is not talking to him (because Michael gets disturbed). Daisy tells him to go away and doesnt want to talk to him.
Michael and Daisy have a fight as Michael holds Daisy responsible for Alex's behaviour.
After some arguments with Daisy and geting convinced, Michael decides to meet Alex and they have casual meet before Michael leaves.

in some time, Alex changes his job and moves to another nearby country. He tries his best for Daisy also to join his project.
Michael and Daisy are convinced for Daisy to join that project as the country has better job prospects for Michael as well. but the process takes a long time.

meanwhile Michael has finally found a job in Europe and moves to an adjasent country to Daisy. Michael and Daisy are now married for almost 3 years.
Daisy visits him. but on this trip Michael is being very causious of relation between Daisy and Alex. He decides not to have blind perceptions and rather tries to sneak into Daisy's phone.
He finds that they are having chats about love and relationship between them where Alex is expecting from Daisy not to have any physical relation with Michael.
He notices that it happens for few days and finally he decides to bring this in front of Daisy.
They have big fight and Daisy tells Michael that she had a weak moment where she told Alex that she is in love with him. but this happend recently and she doesnt feel that way and was trying to get out of it.
She says that she was worried about violent behaviour of Alex thats why she could not stop talking with him abruptly. She insists on the fact that she didnt talk to Alex for few months and this has happened only recently.
She also shares an incident where Alex forcefully came to her house and she filed a police complaint againts him.
after few days of disturbance, fights, crying.. Michael and Daisy decide to move on in life with Daisy promising that she would not keep any kind of contact with Alex.

in one month Daisy visits Michael again. she notices a drastic change in Michaels behaviour. they have fight about it and Michael tells her that he feels cheated and is not in same emotions.
Michael checks Daisys phone and finds that she has talked to Alex multiple times. Daisy tries to deny it but finally admits and says that she wanted to tell him that not talking to him is her own decision as against what Alex feels.

Michael is deeply hurt that she broke his promise again and decides to end his relationship with Daisy. he feels humiliated by her.